"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bamaboi

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Don't call her. You're gonna make yourself look real stupid.

Read this thread again. Understand what we're telling you bro.

YOU fvcked up. Not her. This has nothing to do with her being a woman. This has everything to do with you not being a man. There's nothing more for us to say to you.
How am i going to make myself look stupid??????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bamaboi

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Don't call her. You're gonna make yourself look real stupid.

Read this thread again. Understand what we're telling you bro.

YOU fvcked up. Not her. This has nothing to do with her being a woman. This has everything to do with you not being a man. There's nothing more for us to say to you.
She just posted a status an hour ago saying " Aint none of yall about to see me today , TF " ( TF meaning " What the fucck") with a laughing emoji at the end of sentence.

What the hell is going on?? Yall think the problem of all this is the fact she deals with more than one dude?? If so where do you think i fall in line based on our interactions
 

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She texted him 'wyd' when she was free (of her kid) he ignored her for days. Then he texts get about getting together and she explained that she tried to hookup when she was free but he didn't respond

So smarty replies back to her (in a very beta and jealous way) that he's going to kill the other dudes that are trying to hit her up, and taking her focus off him.

So she responds (essentially) kill yourself because it's your own damn fault you didn't get to see me.

And now he's posting saying he's confused
Lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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