So was walking around my office park at lunch, about a half mile loop with various corporate death factories on either side. Spot a cute indian chick with her friend and say hi on the first pass (trying to say hi to everyone i pass). On the second pass (we are walkin in opposite directions on the loop) we have about 3-4 seconds of "lets go fvck in the bushes" eye contact as we pass each other. So now im like damn i need to stop them the next go round and say something. But i had no idea what to say and let them pass. If it was just her i woulda had no prob stopping and chatting but how should i have engaged both of them? I dont want to just single out the babe and ignore her friend.. Invite them both to lunch sometime i guess? Ask for just the one girls number? Kicking myself now haha.. Hopefully see her again if i didnt kill all momemtum by pussing out.
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Thrown off by her friend, what was the move here?
- Thread starter jurry
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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spiegel549
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You can't be afraid of approaching a girl if she is in a group. I am the guy in my group of guy friends that makes the approach to a group of women and gets them to come over to my friends.jurry said:
You don't ask them both out. You stop the Indian girl and you could of just been flirty like "Hey excuse me, wow..your really beautiful whats your name?" If she responds with a smile or laughs and gives you her name you introduce yourself to her, and also introduce yourself to her friend then ask the indian girl out by saying "listen I'd like to take you out sometime, go do something fun, would you be up for that?" If she says yes you say "ok great why don't you give me your number and ill give you a call to set something up" get her number. Say goodbye to the girl and her friend, you walk away.
Its all about body language and how she reacts. I have done so many approaches and I work in an industry where my job is to study body language that you can tell if she is into you or not. If you got the fvk me in the bushes stare then you shoulda stopped her.
I got a girls number at mcdonalds the other day hahah she was this super cute prob 21-22 year old latina who took my order and the second I walked up I said "wow...you are so pretty" and she turned beat red lol. Got her number and there ya go.
Take a chance, worse they can say is no.
Yep yep right you are! Thanks for the feedback. That 2-3 second window is so crucial, got to just strike when you feel it and that is usually when i psych myself out. I was also feeling that i should get into a longer conversation and see where it goes but it sounds like you prefer quick approach, wow youre beautiful whats your name, wana hang out sometime get the number boom done. Would you guys agree quick in and out is best way? Cold approach is by far the biggest liability in my game really need to step it up and embrace the fear.