"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thrown a huge curveball, whats up with this.

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So I met this HB-8 at a coffee shop a couple weeks ago. Taken her out a couple times had a great time. She shows all kinds of interest but I got thrown a curve ball. Went out on a 3rd date with her on friday, had a good time. The girl tells me shes a virgin and I just kinda blew itoff, no big deal. Things were pretty physical all night long, lots of kino etc.. Welll I go to drop her off and when I go for the kiss she stops me and says "Next time" with this sneaky little smile. WTF is up with that. She txts me the next day saying what a good time she had and we should go out again and all that, then brings me coffee at work and says we should hang out later but I said no cause I have stuff to do. wtf. I asked her what the hell was up with her not letting me kiss her and she said "I dont know you well enough yet." Should I just next this girl or is she playing hard to get or what, Ive never been thrown a curve ball like this before. Is this one giant sh*t test?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She sounds like she's into you. It's good that you tried to kiss her, it shows her that you aren't afraid to be sexual and push your limits. I say give it a couple more dates, and you should be able to at least kiss her.

Also, I wouldn't necessarily believe her when she says shes a virgin. A lot of freaky girls I met said they were virgins just to judge my reaction (ignored it).
 
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Sounds like a tease to me. Don't worry about it. As long as you don't act like this bothers you, you'll be in her pants in no time.
 
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Yeah when she said "I dont know you well enough yet" I just told her "I guess Im gonna have to let you hang out with me some more." and left it at that. Its tough not to let it phase me, made me feel really awkward, chics never throw **** like this at me. Theres a first for everything I guess.
 
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