So I met this HB-8 at a coffee shop a couple weeks ago. Taken her out a couple times had a great time. She shows all kinds of interest but I got thrown a curve ball. Went out on a 3rd date with her on friday, had a good time. The girl tells me shes a virgin and I just kinda blew itoff, no big deal. Things were pretty physical all night long, lots of kino etc.. Welll I go to drop her off and when I go for the kiss she stops me and says "Next time" with this sneaky little smile. WTF is up with that. She txts me the next day saying what a good time she had and we should go out again and all that, then brings me coffee at work and says we should hang out later but I said no cause I have stuff to do. wtf. I asked her what the hell was up with her not letting me kiss her and she said "I dont know you well enough yet." Should I just next this girl or is she playing hard to get or what, Ive never been thrown a curve ball like this before. Is this one giant sh*t test?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thrown a huge curveball, whats up with this.
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