"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Throwing the book out the window - love is not a game

HolyTrinity

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I consider myself above average as far as being able to get girls goes. When I look back I have noticed that I have never really view my relationships i have as a game I always view it as loving and respecting my woman. I just do what my heart tells me to do and I seem to get by. I have a wife and a girlfriend, but I do not consider myself this big time jerk who has to talk **** to women and play mind games w/ them to sleep with them.

i love every minute of the time i spend with my ladies I just treat my ladies with love and affection and get it in return.

anyone else agree with this or does everyone pretty much think that girls are just objects that have such egos that we have to trick them into liking us like its some sort of game?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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base2ball2boy2

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Flawed logic here, brah. Let's take it one step at a time.

1.
I consider myself above average as far as being able to get girls goes.
Then why you posting in a site dedicated to helping people getting girls?

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When I look back I have noticed that I have never really view my relationships i have as a game I always view it as loving and respecting my woman.
Didn't you just say
I consider myself above average as far as being able to get girls goes.
If you were all "loving and respecting women," then you would use another word besides
being able to get girls
3.
I have a wife and a girlfriend, but I do not consider myself this big time jerk who has to talk **** to women and play mind games w/ them to sleep with them.
This site is not dedicated to teaching ways like Patrick Jane does in The Mentalist (totally cool show, by the way). The DJ method is a way of life, teaching men how to be men. Not teaching them a "magic word" or a "secret technique" on how to pick up woman. There is and will never be one. And believe me, if anyone plays "mind games," it's girls! But hang on...
I have a wife and a girlfriend
Does your wife know that?

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i love every minute of the time i spend with my ladies I just treat my ladies with love and affection and get it in return.
So do we!

5.
anyone else agree with this or does everyone pretty much think that girls are just objects that have such egos that we have to trick them into liking us like its some sort of game?
"Tricking them into liking us?" You must have read the wrong DJ Bible, dude, because the DJ way produces pure, genuine, attraction. On both sides.

And I think this is appropriate now...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNQRfBAzSzo
 

DonJuan11

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HolyTrinity said:
- I have never really view my relationships i have as a game
- I always view it as loving and respecting my woman.
- I do not consider myself this big time jerk who has to talk **** to women and play mind games w/ them to sleep with them.
- I have a wife and a girlfriend
I wonder how you would feel if your wife has sex with you right after she lets the handsome 6'1 neighbor inside of her.

Rock on!

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