"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Throwing the book out the window - love is not a game

HolyTrinity

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I consider myself above average as far as being able to get girls goes. When I look back I have noticed that I have never really view my relationships i have as a game I always view it as loving and respecting my woman. I just do what my heart tells me to do and I seem to get by. I have a wife and a girlfriend, but I do not consider myself this big time jerk who has to talk **** to women and play mind games w/ them to sleep with them.

i love every minute of the time i spend with my ladies I just treat my ladies with love and affection and get it in return.

anyone else agree with this or does everyone pretty much think that girls are just objects that have such egos that we have to trick them into liking us like its some sort of game?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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base2ball2boy2

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Flawed logic here, brah. Let's take it one step at a time.

1.
I consider myself above average as far as being able to get girls goes.
Then why you posting in a site dedicated to helping people getting girls?

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When I look back I have noticed that I have never really view my relationships i have as a game I always view it as loving and respecting my woman.
Didn't you just say
I consider myself above average as far as being able to get girls goes.
If you were all "loving and respecting women," then you would use another word besides
being able to get girls
3.
I have a wife and a girlfriend, but I do not consider myself this big time jerk who has to talk **** to women and play mind games w/ them to sleep with them.
This site is not dedicated to teaching ways like Patrick Jane does in The Mentalist (totally cool show, by the way). The DJ method is a way of life, teaching men how to be men. Not teaching them a "magic word" or a "secret technique" on how to pick up woman. There is and will never be one. And believe me, if anyone plays "mind games," it's girls! But hang on...
I have a wife and a girlfriend
Does your wife know that?

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i love every minute of the time i spend with my ladies I just treat my ladies with love and affection and get it in return.
So do we!

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anyone else agree with this or does everyone pretty much think that girls are just objects that have such egos that we have to trick them into liking us like its some sort of game?
"Tricking them into liking us?" You must have read the wrong DJ Bible, dude, because the DJ way produces pure, genuine, attraction. On both sides.

And I think this is appropriate now...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNQRfBAzSzo
 

DonJuan11

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HolyTrinity said:
- I have never really view my relationships i have as a game
- I always view it as loving and respecting my woman.
- I do not consider myself this big time jerk who has to talk **** to women and play mind games w/ them to sleep with them.
- I have a wife and a girlfriend
I wonder how you would feel if your wife has sex with you right after she lets the handsome 6'1 neighbor inside of her.

Rock on!

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