"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Throwing the book out the window - love is not a game

HolyTrinity

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I consider myself above average as far as being able to get girls goes. When I look back I have noticed that I have never really view my relationships i have as a game I always view it as loving and respecting my woman. I just do what my heart tells me to do and I seem to get by. I have a wife and a girlfriend, but I do not consider myself this big time jerk who has to talk **** to women and play mind games w/ them to sleep with them.

i love every minute of the time i spend with my ladies I just treat my ladies with love and affection and get it in return.

anyone else agree with this or does everyone pretty much think that girls are just objects that have such egos that we have to trick them into liking us like its some sort of game?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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base2ball2boy2

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Flawed logic here, brah. Let's take it one step at a time.

1.
I consider myself above average as far as being able to get girls goes.
Then why you posting in a site dedicated to helping people getting girls?

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When I look back I have noticed that I have never really view my relationships i have as a game I always view it as loving and respecting my woman.
Didn't you just say
I consider myself above average as far as being able to get girls goes.
If you were all "loving and respecting women," then you would use another word besides
being able to get girls
3.
I have a wife and a girlfriend, but I do not consider myself this big time jerk who has to talk **** to women and play mind games w/ them to sleep with them.
This site is not dedicated to teaching ways like Patrick Jane does in The Mentalist (totally cool show, by the way). The DJ method is a way of life, teaching men how to be men. Not teaching them a "magic word" or a "secret technique" on how to pick up woman. There is and will never be one. And believe me, if anyone plays "mind games," it's girls! But hang on...
I have a wife and a girlfriend
Does your wife know that?

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i love every minute of the time i spend with my ladies I just treat my ladies with love and affection and get it in return.
So do we!

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anyone else agree with this or does everyone pretty much think that girls are just objects that have such egos that we have to trick them into liking us like its some sort of game?
"Tricking them into liking us?" You must have read the wrong DJ Bible, dude, because the DJ way produces pure, genuine, attraction. On both sides.

And I think this is appropriate now...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNQRfBAzSzo
 

DonJuan11

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HolyTrinity said:
- I have never really view my relationships i have as a game
- I always view it as loving and respecting my woman.
- I do not consider myself this big time jerk who has to talk **** to women and play mind games w/ them to sleep with them.
- I have a wife and a girlfriend
I wonder how you would feel if your wife has sex with you right after she lets the handsome 6'1 neighbor inside of her.

Rock on!

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