"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Through the Fire; a movie production about life in my school.

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http://movies.go.com/movies/movie?n...e=documentary&studio=TBA&CMP=OTC-VX4851685945
(Select the option to view the trailer)


You have always wondered about the life of fellow board members--beyond written words; beyond the rants. This movie is about my school, about my neighborhood and about ONE person who made it "through the fire." For some non-Americans, let this serve as a glimpse of American high school life within the projects of Brooklyn, NY.

I just saw a sneak-peak at school today; it's very inspiring.

>>>>>Coming to a theatre near you on February 10th, 2006...<<<<<<
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are u serious thats u? THats pretty cool having a semi famous kid on these forums. I had read about you in daily news like a year or 2 ago. Hope you get far in your BBall career I kinda fell off when I was going to High school.

Who knows maybe we can sarge sometime:D? Would have never thought a top basketball player in this brooklyn would find his way here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Distant Light
Are u serious thats u? THats pretty cool having a semi famous kid on these forums. I had read about you in daily news like a year or 2 ago. Hope you get far in your BBall career I kinda fell off when I was going to High school.

Who knows maybe we can sarge sometime:D? Would have never thought a top basketball player in this brooklyn would find his way here.
Where did you get the impression that I was Telfair? He went to my school, though; he was in one of my classes, but he rarely showed up.

He now plays for the Trailblazers. He won't be playing for a few months due to an injury.
 

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its been done

"He Got Game" from spike lee

excellent film, everyone should see it, even if they, like me, dont care about basketball.
 
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I think I saw a guy by the name of Mitch Mustaine post here and my bro said he's the most sought after high school football player
 
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