"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Through the Fire; a movie production about life in my school.

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http://movies.go.com/movies/movie?n...e=documentary&studio=TBA&CMP=OTC-VX4851685945
(Select the option to view the trailer)


You have always wondered about the life of fellow board members--beyond written words; beyond the rants. This movie is about my school, about my neighborhood and about ONE person who made it "through the fire." For some non-Americans, let this serve as a glimpse of American high school life within the projects of Brooklyn, NY.

I just saw a sneak-peak at school today; it's very inspiring.

>>>>>Coming to a theatre near you on February 10th, 2006...<<<<<<
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are u serious thats u? THats pretty cool having a semi famous kid on these forums. I had read about you in daily news like a year or 2 ago. Hope you get far in your BBall career I kinda fell off when I was going to High school.

Who knows maybe we can sarge sometime:D? Would have never thought a top basketball player in this brooklyn would find his way here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Distant Light
Are u serious thats u? THats pretty cool having a semi famous kid on these forums. I had read about you in daily news like a year or 2 ago. Hope you get far in your BBall career I kinda fell off when I was going to High school.

Who knows maybe we can sarge sometime:D? Would have never thought a top basketball player in this brooklyn would find his way here.
Where did you get the impression that I was Telfair? He went to my school, though; he was in one of my classes, but he rarely showed up.

He now plays for the Trailblazers. He won't be playing for a few months due to an injury.
 

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its been done

"He Got Game" from spike lee

excellent film, everyone should see it, even if they, like me, dont care about basketball.
 
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I think I saw a guy by the name of Mitch Mustaine post here and my bro said he's the most sought after high school football player
 
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