"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A couple of months ago this girl told me she wanted to do a threesome with me and this other girl I used to date. It didn't happen because I didn't really feel like it at the time. Now, I have decided I'd like to do it now.

When she found out that I wanted to do it with her, she said no. She said it would be breaking the friend code, since the other girl used to be my girlfriend. I have had sex with my ex before, and my ex said she didn't have a problem with the threesome.

I think this is a bunch of b.s., if she really wanted to be with me, she wouldn't let my ex get in the way. What should I do now give up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You didn't feel like it? LoL.

Next time this happens with another broad, you better make sure you feel like it, and call her on it and if not, don't even take her serious, much less start begging her to do something she didn't want to do to begin with.
 
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Move on, she was testing you. Your reaction wasn't what she wanted to see,so you aren't the man she thought you were. IF you would have said,"I suppose we can set it up" You would have passed-she may have bailed then[but you'd have known it was a test] or gone ahead with it. BUT no meant you werent up for the level of kinky she thought you were.
 
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NEVER, EVER, pass up an opportunity like that when it comes up.

I made the same mistake last december and lucky for me the opportunity came up again some months later.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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crossboss said:
A couple of months ago this girl told me she wanted to do a threesome with me and this other girl I used to date. It didn't happen because I didn't really feel like it at the time. Now, I have decided I'd like to do it now.

When she found out that I wanted to do it with her, she said no. She said it would be breaking the friend code, since the other girl used to be my girlfriend. I have had sex with my ex before, and my ex said she didn't have a problem with the threesome.

I think this is a bunch of b.s., if she really wanted to be with me, she wouldn't let my ex get in the way. What should I do now give up?
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Bro..... did you fall and bump your head? Were huffing some inhalant? Just why did you not feel like it and all of a sudden change your mind? You DO NOT pass up golden opportunities, ever as Scorpio1138, eluded to!!! I guess lesson learned because as Sodbuster said, You were not her kind of kinky! I would have been like, " I am always up for naked twister!!!!"

Man, you missed out!!!
 
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Kino Escillation

I'll try some Kino Escillation and see what happens. When I hang out with her in the van with other friends, I'll make it a point to sit next to her. I'll see what happens. I'll report, back here hopefully it will work.
 
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When I was in college, I could of had a 3-some, but didn't. I've been kicking myself ever since. If you ever get the chance, DO IT!
 
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I had a 3-some just last month. Sure her friend was fat as fvck, but I just wanted the 3-some and glad I did, even though her friend was pretty damn disgusting, she rode and came all over me Hard. I'm Always up for 3-somes, anytime, anywhere. I'd Really like a 4-some or 5-some (no dudes).
 
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Poonani Maker said:
I had a 3-some just last month. Sure her friend was fat as fvck, but I just wanted the 3-some and glad I did, even though her friend was pretty damn disgusting, she rode and came all over me Hard. I'm Always up for 3-somes, anytime, anywhere. I'd Really like a 4-some or 5-some (no dudes).
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Damn, bro! +1,000,000
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Seems unlikely anything is going to happen

I tried contacting her to hang out, she hasn't responded. Also, I remember the last time I saw her she called me a friend. Which in other words means friend zone. I think, she is just saying that which means she has no interest in me whatsoever. If she truely was a friend she would have responded. I guess the best thing in this case, is to move on.
 
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Update

She responded, so I'll be meeting her in school Thurs. Should I make kino, then kiss. Or wait and play it, slow. I'll see, what happens, and play it by ear. Sound good?
 
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Apparentely...It hasn't worked out....

The girl I want to have a threesome with said she is busy Thurs(The day I want to hang out). So, apparentely, she told my ex, that I am using her and she doesen't like me.

What should I do when a girl accuses you of being a user? My ex however, thinks she is jealous.
 
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