"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A couple of months ago this girl told me she wanted to do a threesome with me and this other girl I used to date. It didn't happen because I didn't really feel like it at the time. Now, I have decided I'd like to do it now.

When she found out that I wanted to do it with her, she said no. She said it would be breaking the friend code, since the other girl used to be my girlfriend. I have had sex with my ex before, and my ex said she didn't have a problem with the threesome.

I think this is a bunch of b.s., if she really wanted to be with me, she wouldn't let my ex get in the way. What should I do now give up?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You didn't feel like it? LoL.

Next time this happens with another broad, you better make sure you feel like it, and call her on it and if not, don't even take her serious, much less start begging her to do something she didn't want to do to begin with.
 
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Move on, she was testing you. Your reaction wasn't what she wanted to see,so you aren't the man she thought you were. IF you would have said,"I suppose we can set it up" You would have passed-she may have bailed then[but you'd have known it was a test] or gone ahead with it. BUT no meant you werent up for the level of kinky she thought you were.
 
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NEVER, EVER, pass up an opportunity like that when it comes up.

I made the same mistake last december and lucky for me the opportunity came up again some months later.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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crossboss said:
A couple of months ago this girl told me she wanted to do a threesome with me and this other girl I used to date. It didn't happen because I didn't really feel like it at the time. Now, I have decided I'd like to do it now.

When she found out that I wanted to do it with her, she said no. She said it would be breaking the friend code, since the other girl used to be my girlfriend. I have had sex with my ex before, and my ex said she didn't have a problem with the threesome.

I think this is a bunch of b.s., if she really wanted to be with me, she wouldn't let my ex get in the way. What should I do now give up?
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Bro..... did you fall and bump your head? Were huffing some inhalant? Just why did you not feel like it and all of a sudden change your mind? You DO NOT pass up golden opportunities, ever as Scorpio1138, eluded to!!! I guess lesson learned because as Sodbuster said, You were not her kind of kinky! I would have been like, " I am always up for naked twister!!!!"

Man, you missed out!!!
 
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Kino Escillation

I'll try some Kino Escillation and see what happens. When I hang out with her in the van with other friends, I'll make it a point to sit next to her. I'll see what happens. I'll report, back here hopefully it will work.
 
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When I was in college, I could of had a 3-some, but didn't. I've been kicking myself ever since. If you ever get the chance, DO IT!
 
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I had a 3-some just last month. Sure her friend was fat as fvck, but I just wanted the 3-some and glad I did, even though her friend was pretty damn disgusting, she rode and came all over me Hard. I'm Always up for 3-somes, anytime, anywhere. I'd Really like a 4-some or 5-some (no dudes).
 
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Poonani Maker said:
I had a 3-some just last month. Sure her friend was fat as fvck, but I just wanted the 3-some and glad I did, even though her friend was pretty damn disgusting, she rode and came all over me Hard. I'm Always up for 3-somes, anytime, anywhere. I'd Really like a 4-some or 5-some (no dudes).
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Damn, bro! +1,000,000
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Seems unlikely anything is going to happen

I tried contacting her to hang out, she hasn't responded. Also, I remember the last time I saw her she called me a friend. Which in other words means friend zone. I think, she is just saying that which means she has no interest in me whatsoever. If she truely was a friend she would have responded. I guess the best thing in this case, is to move on.
 
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Update

She responded, so I'll be meeting her in school Thurs. Should I make kino, then kiss. Or wait and play it, slow. I'll see, what happens, and play it by ear. Sound good?
 
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Apparentely...It hasn't worked out....

The girl I want to have a threesome with said she is busy Thurs(The day I want to hang out). So, apparentely, she told my ex, that I am using her and she doesen't like me.

What should I do when a girl accuses you of being a user? My ex however, thinks she is jealous.
 
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