"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Three Reasons NOT to choose a Law-Enforcement Career

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Considering I am training to be a Police Officer, I find this thread funny.

I pretty much got all tree of stuka's stuff covered just by moderating here! :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being a cop is not like that in miami it depends on where u live:)
 

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EricInTheHouse said:
#1 My cousin(who is a girl) became a NYState troper 3 years ago..she makes close to 80,000 dollars a year:up:
She would have to make about $150K a year to even manage get a small place in NY City. And that still might not be enough.

$80K might be good money in the South...but not in NY City.
 

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Any profession will have three reasons for why not to be in that position.

Police work is an honorable work. Any work...if done honorable (regardless of the job) is a job in which the person deserves the respect.

Remember...it is not the job...but the person that performs that job.
 
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Latinoman said:
She would have to make about $150K a year to even manage get a small place in NY City. And that still might not be enough.

$80K might be good money in the South...but not in NY City.


She is a NY "state" police officer...in "upstate" NY... There is actually a state of NY you know.. $80,000 a year in upstate NY is damn fine money..

She put a metal roof on her house
, and I recently heard she is having a full deck built down on her hill in the back and a stairway leading up to the upper deck or whatever.. pool..

She drives a new RAV-4, and she is just 28 years old:up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A metal roof? Where does she lives? In a village in some third world country?
 

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Dudes, have anyone of you watched "Miami Vice" or "The Shield"?

Being a cop is awesome!!!!!


/end sarcasm
 

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penkitten said:
however, if no one choose the law enforcement career, where would that leave the citizens of our country with crime?
that will never happen. the government will offer 50 to 100 dollars an hours if they have to. money talks.

everyone is important anyways, from a garbage man, to a doctor, teacher, or auto mechanic!~
 
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Latinoman said:
A metal roof? Where does she lives? In a village in some third world country?
yeah they are very nice looking roofs. They are not those silver tin roofs you are thinking.. My dad currently is getting one installed on his house.

Like this..
 

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EricInTheHouse said:
yeah they are very nice looking roofs. They are not those silver tin roofs you are thinking.. My dad currently is getting one installed on his house.

Like this..
Yeah I think metal roofs cost more than asphalt shingle ones and they sometimes last like a 100 years. You can even get copper ones, they're expensive. I think if I was going to get a high dollar roof put on i might go with slate or tile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Also if I were a cop...I'd play the theme from cops evertime I pulled over a perf...

I'd get a sub woofer induced system in my squad car, and crank it up so the perf can clearly hear it...

"BAD BOYS BAD BOYS WATCHA GONNA DO>>WATCHA GONNA DO WHEN THEY COME FOR YOU?::

After it fades .. I would tell the perf.. "remember that beeotch!" while slapping the chrome rings around his wrist.. One bad ass officer I would make..

Not really , lol
 

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I cannot be a cop. If I was one...I would be beating the crap out of criminals.
 

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I got my first speeding ticket today...gotta love our city's finest...
 

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People become cops because they want the POWER! It's all about power. They love that they can bust some innocent person and make them pay hundreds of dollars for driving a little bit over the speed limit, spending THEIR hard-earned money on a prostitute, etc. They love that they can pull someone over, intimidate that person, use mind games to trick him/her into consenting to a search, and completely invade his/her privacy. If they get lucky, they might even get to arrest someone! WOW! Wouldn't that make them feel powerful and good about themselves.

Cops are just bullies who get into other people's business. They rarely do anything good. Ever had something stolen from you? Ever had a loved one in danger? Then you'll know that in truly important situations, the cops say, "Sorry, but there's nothing we can do." But when you're going just a little over the speed limit or double buckling in a car because there aren't enough seats... WOAH, now the cops feel the need to take some action!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I generally don't hate the police, but I HATE when cops abuse their power when it comes to driving.

I am sure we have all seen the cops who turn their emergency lights on in a non-emergency situation just because they don't feel like sitting in traffic.

I also see NJ State Troopers do this one quite often and it happened to me today:

I am on the Garden State Parkway in the left lane doing 75mph. Out of nowhere a trooper is riding my bumper (about 2 feet behind me) and NO EMERGENCY SITUATION OR FLASHING LIGHTS until I move out of "his lane".

After I move over, he did the same exact thing to the next 3 motorists.

I have witnessed this on many occasions and it makes me angry.
 
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2.0 said:
People become cops because they want the POWER! It's all about power. They love that they can bust some innocent person and make them pay hundreds of dollars for driving a little bit over the speed limit, spending THEIR hard-earned money on a prostitute, etc. They love that they can pull someone over, intimidate that person, use mind games to trick him/her into consenting to a search, and completely invade his/her privacy. If they get lucky, they might even get to arrest someone! WOW! Wouldn't that make them feel powerful and good about themselves.

Cops are just bullies who get into other people's business. They rarely do anything good. Ever had something stolen from you? Ever had a loved one in danger? Then you'll know that in truly important situations, the cops say, "Sorry, but there's nothing we can do." But when you're going just a little over the speed limit or double buckling in a car because there aren't enough seats... WOAH, now the cops feel the need to take some action!
You don't know what ur talking about.
 
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