Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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fvck i'll do it
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
As i said before , TRY TO FIND A FRIEND WHO'S WILLING TO DO MISSIONS WITH YOU . Its much more fun .Daddy The Pimp
gottiwill
ismael
Bryce556
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macking
L Duke
Bonafide
Principe
SeanyB
Bronxtal112
suaveplayer
Punisha
Poonani Maker
Eiljwa
frenchbeauty
weepingrose
gray_fox_9
Privitor
ashman1
DarkShade
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Daddy The Pimp
gottiwill
ismael
Bryce556
PrinceKong
macking
L Duke
Bonafide
Principe
SeanyB
Bronxtal112
suaveplayer
Punisha
Poonani Maker
Eiljwa
frenchbeauty
weepingrose
gray_fox_9
Privitor
ashman1
DarkShade
Pathetik
Jokerlsk
brian123
ParrotHead420
Cool . This is for newbs too . Its for everyone who have Approach Anxiety , Who is scared from women , who dont have social skills etc .ParrotHead420 said:Well, I wanted some homework. I'm a newbie but I'm gonna jump in here too.
Yea , the point of it is to defeat AA ( approach anxiety ) . So , if you can approach women and get rejected without problem , approaching women with good openers and opening them will be too damn easy .brian123 said:I;m in. I need the work.
I especially like the notion of "trying for rejections"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Daddy The Pimp
gottiwill
ismael
Bryce556
PrinceKong
macking
L Duke
Bonafide
Principe
SeanyB
Bronxtal112
suaveplayer
Punisha
Poonani Maker
Eiljwa
frenchbeauty
weepingrose
gray_fox_9
Privitor
ashman1
DarkShade
Pathetik
Jokerlsk
brian123
ParrotHead420
SoIN
ExcelNPrevail
In_the_works
NoStrife
Killer Six Pac
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.