"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thread with missions : Increase your success with womens this summer

Poonani Maker

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fvck i'll do it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Eiljwa

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I'm in for it. I've missed some good opportunities and I really need a kick in the rear to get out of my comfort zone.
 

frenchbeauty

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Count me in coach .. I'm a goalscorer
 

gray_fox_9

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Count me in also...time for a drastic change....I look forward to the 15th
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Privitor

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Here's an idea for a "mission": run around naked in a crowded square. Whoohoo! How many emotions will you feel then?
That'll show who has balls and who does not (both literally and not literally).


I'll try to complete the missions as well.


Please, don't make up stupid assignments!
 

DarkShade

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Count me in
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Cool brothers .

Im glad to see how many of you guys have balls ato commit to themselves that they are going to change themselves for no matter what .

Now we have 21 guys waiting for challenges . *rubbing hands*

Daddy The Pimp

gottiwill

ismael

Bryce556

PrinceKong

macking

L Duke

Bonafide

Principe

SeanyB

Bronxtal112

suaveplayer

Punisha

Poonani Maker

Eiljwa

frenchbeauty

weepingrose

gray_fox_9

Privitor

ashman1

DarkShade
As i said before , TRY TO FIND A FRIEND WHO'S WILLING TO DO MISSIONS WITH YOU . Its much more fun .

Ill reveal some sh1t here .

Week 1 - 3 missions


First mission is going to be super fvcking easy . This is just to show you that people are friendly .

Second mission is Peacocking . Standing out in the crowd . Wearing interesting clothes . This will get you a bit out of comfort zone .

Third mission is s AIMING FOR REJECTION
We will open some sets and use some specific openers that will get you rejected in spot . This is to defeat the fear of rejections .

Im going to post them on Monday , 15 July .

Missions will get much more harder . We will try anything .

If you have any idea for missions , PM me , ill field test it than put it here . And give you the credit , of course :p

Respect for all of you who had balls to take this challenge .

Peace
 

Pathetik

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Hey :)
I'd like to give it a try :cheer:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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brian123

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I;m in. I need the work.

I especially like the notion of "trying for rejections"
 

Daddy The Pimp

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This sh1t is getting hugeee :p

Now we have 25 brothers prepared to switch the game to the next level .

4 days left brothers :D . Be ready !!

Daddy The Pimp

gottiwill

ismael

Bryce556

PrinceKong

macking

L Duke

Bonafide

Principe

SeanyB

Bronxtal112

suaveplayer

Punisha

Poonani Maker

Eiljwa

frenchbeauty

weepingrose

gray_fox_9

Privitor

ashman1

DarkShade

Pathetik

Jokerlsk

brian123

ParrotHead420






ParrotHead420 said:
Well, I wanted some homework. I'm a newbie but I'm gonna jump in here too.
Cool . This is for newbs too . Its for everyone who have Approach Anxiety , Who is scared from women , who dont have social skills etc .

brian123 said:
I;m in. I need the work.

I especially like the notion of "trying for rejections"
Yea , the point of it is to defeat AA ( approach anxiety ) . So , if you can approach women and get rejected without problem , approaching women with good openers and opening them will be too damn easy .
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

NoStrife

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sounds like a plan, i'm in. things can only get better from here as i see it...
 

Killer Six Pac

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Im in player! :up: :cheer: :crackup:
 

Daddy The Pimp

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30 DJ . Be ready . 1 day left .

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gottiwill

ismael

Bryce556

PrinceKong

macking

L Duke

Bonafide

Principe

SeanyB

Bronxtal112

suaveplayer

Punisha

Poonani Maker

Eiljwa

frenchbeauty

weepingrose

gray_fox_9

Privitor

ashman1

DarkShade

Pathetik

Jokerlsk

brian123

ParrotHead420

SoIN

ExcelNPrevail

In_the_works

NoStrife

Killer Six Pac
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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