“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Thoughts on Valentine's day?

Roober

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2016
Messages
2,372
Reaction score
2,120
I know this is a bit late, but what's your guys thoughts on Valentine's day? I think it's a bit silly hallmark holiday. I am good about doing random acts of kindness throughout the year, so to focus on one day seems stupid.

And it's not really about men... It's about what men can do for women, or women for women...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,536
Reaction score
11,485
I made an observation while checking out faKebook yesterday....I saw many of my male friends posting pics of them with their significant other or pics of just their significant other while professing their love and how lucky they are. Some really cheesy schitt. Made me want to cringe.

The women only posted pics of the gifts they received for V-Day thanking their man. They weren't professing their love, just showing off their gifts.

We need a day that honors men........steak, blow jobs, beer, and $trippers!. :D
 

BeExcellent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 16, 2015
Messages
5,415
Reaction score
7,941
Age
57
I learned a long time ago from the nightclub business that the two nights in a year that I DON'T want to go out are Valentine's Day and New Year's Eve. Those are better spent staying in and cooking or perhaps at someone's home with friends.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,571
Reaction score
6,354
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
It is certainly the last night of the year I would go out for dinner. Restaurants often raise their prices for the day. It's crowded, and servers are overworked.

I bought food to cook, my gf's favorite bourbon and some candy I know she likes. We had a nice evening at home. Holidays are what you make of them, even the most shallow and commercialized holidays.
 

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,394
Reaction score
4,061
If you are single and don't have any close female friends then I think you just want the day to fast forward to the next day. In the other hand, it's less stress you have to deal with and the day does go by very fast.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Red Legg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2016
Messages
904
Reaction score
737
Location
USA
I had a marvelous Valentines day drove up to my main squeeze's house surprised her with a bottle of wine and gourmet chocolates after she was already in bed for the night then had lustfully great sex all night not a bad V day.Total cost about 40 bucks.
 
Top