"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Me and my girlfriend have been going for over a year and a half now. This is really my first ever relationship. I am 21 years old and she is 20 years old. We currently go to the same college west of Atlanta. Ever since the first few months of the relationship we both felt as if we were made for eachother. We would talk about marriage and kids all the time then. We still do to this day even though that is no where near as much as we used to talk about. We also have been arguing alot these past weeks even though that we our at our respective houses because of Christmas break. Next week we will go back to our apartment at our school.

I am currently a Senior at college and I plan to graduate next December with a Bachelor's in Accounting. I am focused on graduating with a 3.5 and finding an internship to go to while I get my Masters after. My gf is transfering to UGA in May after this semester in college (She is a sophomore). When we talk about it all she talks about is how she can't wait to go to football games and how she wants to dance and all the other extra-curricular activities.

It just seems that things are falling apart. Because less in a month ago we were talking about how we want to finish school as soon as possible and move to a different state. Now it seems like her focus is just to have fun at a different school. What are your thoughts about all of this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
It just seems that things are falling apart. Because less in a month ago we were talking about how we want to finish school as soon as possible and move to a different state. Now it seems like her focus is just to have fun at a different school. What are your thoughts about all of this.
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Well this probably isn't what you want to hear, but it's the first thing that comes to mind:

You're 21. She's 20. You're both in college. I could see things ending between you two because you're young and have bright futures ahead of you. Why be tied to one person for life when you guys met shortly after your teen years? I was a different person at 21. And at 24. And now at 29. Hell, I'm not even 30 and I hate 21 year olds. You both are going to change so much in the coming years, how could you possibly commit to each other for life....you don't even know who you guys are going to become.

If you were living some uneducated small-town life, then yeah, people in that situation settle down at a young age because they have nothing else. You're both young and in college.

But okay if you want to keep her, I recommend backing off a bit. I think you're both TOO comfortable with each other, and maybe you need to make her understand that she's a PART of your life, but not the whole thing. (Which is probably hard since you both share an apartment for some silly reason.)

Anyway, my point is, begin displaying through hobbies, social activities, and just generally, not being around her all the time, that you have a life, and she is not your whole life. Maybe that'll break her (and you) out of the comfort zone. But overall, I think at your age you shouldn't be settling down anyway. It's unrealistic.
 
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Too fast too soon. Happened to me also.

She just wants to have fun.
She wants to be on her own.
She wants to "explore".
She wants other men.

Sorry...
 
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I can understand what you are saying with the comfortability factor. I am about my business. I could care less about going out with friends and doing stuff. I love to play basketball (That's the only exception). Other then playing basketball I really just like to be myself (I don't mind my GF around when I say I Want to be myself). I am trying to create a couple websites and trying to read a lot of books on bettering myself. I really would love a girl that could focus more on her future endeavors and schoolwork rather than having to impress people. I honestly believe that a big reason why we started dating was so she could show me off to her friends.
 
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Nvm
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She hasn't woken up yet. Not answering the phone. I'll let you know as soon as I find out.
 
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Nvm.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
She phychologically ****ed up because she got pregnant before...

So she cant orgasm when shes having sex... she hunches pillows to have an orgasm.
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Dude, did you paste this in the wrong thread..?

Re your situation, just remember that your first is never your last. You think you were made for each other and are now drifting apart?...

....there are going to be many more chicks out there just like her.

Don't focus just on her, but get out there, see other chicks and live your own life as well.
 
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