"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kevin Feng

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Just out of curiosity, I just wanted to know what the reactions in general were for the show for all the DJ's here.

I've heard a lot of mixed reviews, some people thought it was great since it brought all this underground stuff to light and has been inspiration for all the AFC's out there, but some people think it's negative since it's kind of giving our "secrets" away.

Anyway, feel free to leave your two cents, would love to hear it.

-Kevin
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I never watched season 2.

Once I learned that guy who won season 1 was a model/actor I assumed the whole thing was scripted. Needless to say I was disgusted. I didn't even bother watching season 2.

An interesting note, is that I am a member of the Casanova Crew, a SoCal lair. Every month we have guest speakers. This Sunday we are having BradP as well as Simeon whom you should know.

BradP is well known, but I have no idea what to expect from Simeon (the guy who won season 2)
 
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Maxtro said:
I never watched season 2.

Once I learned that guy who won season 1 was a model/actor I assumed the whole thing was scripted. Needless to say I was disgusted. I didn't even bother watching season 2.

An interesting note, is that I am a member of the Casanova Crew, a SoCal lair. Every month we have guest speakers. This Sunday we are having BradP as well as Simeon whom you should know.

BradP is well known, but I have no idea what to expect from Simeon.
Where is this "lair" meeting taking place, and how does one go about getting in to check out the speakers?
 

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Kevin Feng said:
Just out of curiosity, I just wanted to know what the reactions in general were for the show for all the DJ's here.

I've heard a lot of mixed reviews, some people thought it was great since it brought all this underground stuff to light and has been inspiration for all the AFC's out there, but some people think it's negative since it's kind of giving our "secrets" away.

Anyway, feel free to leave your two cents, would love to hear it.

-Kevin

I watched Parts of season 2 including the episode where you got eliminated :whistle:

anyway my question to you is this, I've heard rumors that some of the it is staged, like some of the girls at the grocery store where "plants" etc etc

Personally I'm glad if you got something out of it, but I agree with people who feel ike its giving away "secerts". I don't do canned crap myself but I had a buddy who was big into the "opinon" opener and he had me try it, and a girl called me out on it. After that I never did it again,

Of course that's just my opinon

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158444&highlight=ran+pua+guys
^^THe FR

respect
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Loved The Show Both Seasons Hope Theres A Season 3
 

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I don't think it gave secrets away, because most men will never bother trying to change, and it actually works. In the show, you got thrown out there into clubs and had to change, in most mens lives, they can't be bothered to change.

I think it's best not to use canned material, and to use something that you've made up on your own. E.g. Asking their opinion on dental floss or if they like tattoos on girls or if they saw the fight outside is going to get you called out eventually, asking them if they're having fun isn't (or something a little more creative than that.) If you're in a supermarket, and they have a few dozen bananas, ask them why (again, a little more creative than that.)

It actually showed me a few things I was doing wrong. I always walked up to women with some variation of "Hi, what's your name?" This would work sometimes, since I'm pretty good looking, but it didn't really leave them guessing as to why I was talking to them. I'd always be facing them directly, even if they weren't, so I gave them higher value.

After watching the show, I decided to read Mystery's book, and he has a lot of useful little tricks and games that work very well.
 
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I watched both seasons for entertainment but personally i think you can learn much more from watching keys to the vip.
 
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