"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kevin Feng

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Just out of curiosity, I just wanted to know what the reactions in general were for the show for all the DJ's here.

I've heard a lot of mixed reviews, some people thought it was great since it brought all this underground stuff to light and has been inspiration for all the AFC's out there, but some people think it's negative since it's kind of giving our "secrets" away.

Anyway, feel free to leave your two cents, would love to hear it.

-Kevin
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I never watched season 2.

Once I learned that guy who won season 1 was a model/actor I assumed the whole thing was scripted. Needless to say I was disgusted. I didn't even bother watching season 2.

An interesting note, is that I am a member of the Casanova Crew, a SoCal lair. Every month we have guest speakers. This Sunday we are having BradP as well as Simeon whom you should know.

BradP is well known, but I have no idea what to expect from Simeon (the guy who won season 2)
 
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Maxtro said:
I never watched season 2.

Once I learned that guy who won season 1 was a model/actor I assumed the whole thing was scripted. Needless to say I was disgusted. I didn't even bother watching season 2.

An interesting note, is that I am a member of the Casanova Crew, a SoCal lair. Every month we have guest speakers. This Sunday we are having BradP as well as Simeon whom you should know.

BradP is well known, but I have no idea what to expect from Simeon.
Where is this "lair" meeting taking place, and how does one go about getting in to check out the speakers?
 

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Kevin Feng said:
Just out of curiosity, I just wanted to know what the reactions in general were for the show for all the DJ's here.

I've heard a lot of mixed reviews, some people thought it was great since it brought all this underground stuff to light and has been inspiration for all the AFC's out there, but some people think it's negative since it's kind of giving our "secrets" away.

Anyway, feel free to leave your two cents, would love to hear it.

-Kevin

I watched Parts of season 2 including the episode where you got eliminated :whistle:

anyway my question to you is this, I've heard rumors that some of the it is staged, like some of the girls at the grocery store where "plants" etc etc

Personally I'm glad if you got something out of it, but I agree with people who feel ike its giving away "secerts". I don't do canned crap myself but I had a buddy who was big into the "opinon" opener and he had me try it, and a girl called me out on it. After that I never did it again,

Of course that's just my opinon

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158444&highlight=ran+pua+guys
^^THe FR

respect
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Loved The Show Both Seasons Hope Theres A Season 3
 

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I don't think it gave secrets away, because most men will never bother trying to change, and it actually works. In the show, you got thrown out there into clubs and had to change, in most mens lives, they can't be bothered to change.

I think it's best not to use canned material, and to use something that you've made up on your own. E.g. Asking their opinion on dental floss or if they like tattoos on girls or if they saw the fight outside is going to get you called out eventually, asking them if they're having fun isn't (or something a little more creative than that.) If you're in a supermarket, and they have a few dozen bananas, ask them why (again, a little more creative than that.)

It actually showed me a few things I was doing wrong. I always walked up to women with some variation of "Hi, what's your name?" This would work sometimes, since I'm pretty good looking, but it didn't really leave them guessing as to why I was talking to them. I'd always be facing them directly, even if they weren't, so I gave them higher value.

After watching the show, I decided to read Mystery's book, and he has a lot of useful little tricks and games that work very well.
 
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I watched both seasons for entertainment but personally i think you can learn much more from watching keys to the vip.
 
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