"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thoughts on not masturbating

FBA808

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i am in a new place for a little while, really busy, probably won't hook up

i haven't masturbated since i've been here, 6 days now

might not sound like a lot, but i usually masturbated once or twice a day

while sometimes i get REALLY horny, i also feel like i am thinking clearer and becoming more naturally social, almost as if nature is forcing me to be since i'm not getting a nut

i think i'm gonna stop for good

if you got something from this, good, i'm glad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tomatoes

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Watch the film "40 days and 40 Nights."

I watched it and tried to follow up on it. I went for 27 days then I stopped...I could of carried on but i couldnt find a good enough reason to. Must admit thow. If you stop.....When you come back. It feels ****ing good.
 

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yeah same deal with me. its like whats the point really. just dont do it as often, say like once or twice a week and youll get the same effect.
 

Morphiex

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how many no masturbation threads have been made up the past year or so ??... id say about 50 or so... so do a search next time.....
 

Egoist

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there is nothing really wrong with masturbation, so don't make it out to be all evil, but yeah, it makes you different if you don't release because of hormonal levels and such.


the easiest way to stop doing it all the time is to realize that pleasure comes from experience itself, not release. Sort of a tantric approach, i guess. It makes the sex better as well, since your aim would be not to come, but to enjoy physical interaction with a beautiful person.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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