"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thoughts on not masturbating

FBA808

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i am in a new place for a little while, really busy, probably won't hook up

i haven't masturbated since i've been here, 6 days now

might not sound like a lot, but i usually masturbated once or twice a day

while sometimes i get REALLY horny, i also feel like i am thinking clearer and becoming more naturally social, almost as if nature is forcing me to be since i'm not getting a nut

i think i'm gonna stop for good

if you got something from this, good, i'm glad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tomatoes

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Watch the film "40 days and 40 Nights."

I watched it and tried to follow up on it. I went for 27 days then I stopped...I could of carried on but i couldnt find a good enough reason to. Must admit thow. If you stop.....When you come back. It feels ****ing good.
 

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yeah same deal with me. its like whats the point really. just dont do it as often, say like once or twice a week and youll get the same effect.
 

Morphiex

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how many no masturbation threads have been made up the past year or so ??... id say about 50 or so... so do a search next time.....
 

Egoist

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there is nothing really wrong with masturbation, so don't make it out to be all evil, but yeah, it makes you different if you don't release because of hormonal levels and such.


the easiest way to stop doing it all the time is to realize that pleasure comes from experience itself, not release. Sort of a tantric approach, i guess. It makes the sex better as well, since your aim would be not to come, but to enjoy physical interaction with a beautiful person.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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