"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thoughts on not masturbating

FBA808

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i am in a new place for a little while, really busy, probably won't hook up

i haven't masturbated since i've been here, 6 days now

might not sound like a lot, but i usually masturbated once or twice a day

while sometimes i get REALLY horny, i also feel like i am thinking clearer and becoming more naturally social, almost as if nature is forcing me to be since i'm not getting a nut

i think i'm gonna stop for good

if you got something from this, good, i'm glad.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tomatoes

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Watch the film "40 days and 40 Nights."

I watched it and tried to follow up on it. I went for 27 days then I stopped...I could of carried on but i couldnt find a good enough reason to. Must admit thow. If you stop.....When you come back. It feels ****ing good.
 

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yeah same deal with me. its like whats the point really. just dont do it as often, say like once or twice a week and youll get the same effect.
 

Morphiex

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how many no masturbation threads have been made up the past year or so ??... id say about 50 or so... so do a search next time.....
 

Egoist

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there is nothing really wrong with masturbation, so don't make it out to be all evil, but yeah, it makes you different if you don't release because of hormonal levels and such.


the easiest way to stop doing it all the time is to realize that pleasure comes from experience itself, not release. Sort of a tantric approach, i guess. It makes the sex better as well, since your aim would be not to come, but to enjoy physical interaction with a beautiful person.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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