"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thoughts on hot girl interaction?

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OK - strange one today. In my uni class, this girl who is quite hot around an 8, said she was very happy today (i think because she was ill and has recovered) and gave me a shoulder rub and asked me how im doing. (she did this to a few other people in the class though). Later on in the day, she commented on how she forgot how tall I am, and sort of grabbed my arm and leant her head on my arm/shoulder.

I wasn't thinking straight cos I have had loads of work recently, so I didn't really do much in these situations except make some light conversation and then be on my way. I haven't really spoke to this girl much before, but she is hot and I definitely would wanna get with her.

I guess my question is, what do you make of her interactions and the physical stuff, is it anything to read into or not? and also I didn't use any game at all, so how should I follow it up tomorrow? The good thing is im not her "friend", im more of the "mysterious" guy to a lot of the people in my class...is that good or bad?

if it helps, im 23 and new to trying to learn the DJ techniques :eek:

sorry for writing so much, but your thoughs appreciated

dj in hell
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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it sounds more like she realizes she has power over you; i.e. touch you without you minding.

Sounds more like she is flirting to flirt, but hey who cares ask her out. What's there to lose; you're not even friends.
 
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I wish I was as smooth a guy, to be able to just "ask someone out", unfortunately im not.

I think I'll just subtly try techniques i've learnt from here, kino and ****, and definitely not get too friendly with her..thats the last thing I want to do, as I've been friend-zoned before, and ****ing hated it!

Shes younger than me too, so I will try and display my dominance. I dont want her to think shes above me.......my thoughts are a shambles with stuff like this :(
 
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