"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thoughts on hot girl interaction?

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OK - strange one today. In my uni class, this girl who is quite hot around an 8, said she was very happy today (i think because she was ill and has recovered) and gave me a shoulder rub and asked me how im doing. (she did this to a few other people in the class though). Later on in the day, she commented on how she forgot how tall I am, and sort of grabbed my arm and leant her head on my arm/shoulder.

I wasn't thinking straight cos I have had loads of work recently, so I didn't really do much in these situations except make some light conversation and then be on my way. I haven't really spoke to this girl much before, but she is hot and I definitely would wanna get with her.

I guess my question is, what do you make of her interactions and the physical stuff, is it anything to read into or not? and also I didn't use any game at all, so how should I follow it up tomorrow? The good thing is im not her "friend", im more of the "mysterious" guy to a lot of the people in my class...is that good or bad?

if it helps, im 23 and new to trying to learn the DJ techniques :eek:

sorry for writing so much, but your thoughs appreciated

dj in hell
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it sounds more like she realizes she has power over you; i.e. touch you without you minding.

Sounds more like she is flirting to flirt, but hey who cares ask her out. What's there to lose; you're not even friends.
 
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I wish I was as smooth a guy, to be able to just "ask someone out", unfortunately im not.

I think I'll just subtly try techniques i've learnt from here, kino and ****, and definitely not get too friendly with her..thats the last thing I want to do, as I've been friend-zoned before, and ****ing hated it!

Shes younger than me too, so I will try and display my dominance. I dont want her to think shes above me.......my thoughts are a shambles with stuff like this :(
 
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