"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thoughts on hot girl interaction?

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OK - strange one today. In my uni class, this girl who is quite hot around an 8, said she was very happy today (i think because she was ill and has recovered) and gave me a shoulder rub and asked me how im doing. (she did this to a few other people in the class though). Later on in the day, she commented on how she forgot how tall I am, and sort of grabbed my arm and leant her head on my arm/shoulder.

I wasn't thinking straight cos I have had loads of work recently, so I didn't really do much in these situations except make some light conversation and then be on my way. I haven't really spoke to this girl much before, but she is hot and I definitely would wanna get with her.

I guess my question is, what do you make of her interactions and the physical stuff, is it anything to read into or not? and also I didn't use any game at all, so how should I follow it up tomorrow? The good thing is im not her "friend", im more of the "mysterious" guy to a lot of the people in my class...is that good or bad?

if it helps, im 23 and new to trying to learn the DJ techniques :eek:

sorry for writing so much, but your thoughs appreciated

dj in hell
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it sounds more like she realizes she has power over you; i.e. touch you without you minding.

Sounds more like she is flirting to flirt, but hey who cares ask her out. What's there to lose; you're not even friends.
 
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I wish I was as smooth a guy, to be able to just "ask someone out", unfortunately im not.

I think I'll just subtly try techniques i've learnt from here, kino and ****, and definitely not get too friendly with her..thats the last thing I want to do, as I've been friend-zoned before, and ****ing hated it!

Shes younger than me too, so I will try and display my dominance. I dont want her to think shes above me.......my thoughts are a shambles with stuff like this :(
 
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