Thoughts on "early" drink dates?

[Sega Genesis]

Lol is right! Look what happened. SHE ghosted him.

BPH posted today (or yesterday) HE was the one who texted HER after the date to assure her he wasn't gonna ghost her.

A few message exchanges after that then nothing. Three days later he texted her again (twice) confirming Thursday date and she ghosted him..

Yeah girl was REAL interested. Lmao

Whatever. NEXT.

 

[Solomon]

I agree with you generally, but in this case, I felt there was a lack of interest, and I was right.

Yes, she was interested enough to match with me multiple times until we could go on a date. That's a positive.

I'm not harping on BPH I know some people think my methods are "Outdated" but for me personally I always found women who I matched with multiple times BEFORE I met them redflags.

One women I would match with on various apps such a POF, Tinder and last time was Bumble(this was spawning over a decade multiple times). This women would always fawn over me calling me "Hot" so i thought it was a easy slam dunk to meet for a date etc but then she would say "I know you're a player " and then she would ghost me or unmatch. Come to find out a few years ago she went on a date with a buddy of mine and ghosted him after the date. She still tries to match with me when she see's me on apps but women like that are just serial dating AW's who are looking for validation and not a man. I think the girl knows that I wouldn't fall for her b.s. (long term)thus she was never serious about meeting.

There was another women who I matched with recently who picked me up from the airport in 2017 when I came back from LA. We had a drink at the bar by my house. We never had a 2nd date but she would sent me nudes of herself etc then ghosted Two weeks ago We matched by accident cause she lost some weight and looks way hotter than she did 10 years ago. Nothing has changed, same mindset same b.s.