"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thoughts on BPD and society
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Most women aren't crazy, they are just.....women. Very predictable for the red pill man.Fruitbat said:
'Crazy' starts happening when you start talking about abuse, childhood issues, etc. And nowadays that's about 50% of the population, so maybe you are right.
YawataNoKami
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Ebola, aids, black plague those are serious illnesses. Now, obesity, depression, bpd and all that are just fags missing a nice old fashioned fvck.Amongst all forms of depressions in existence the only one i give credit is to Manic-depression. Not even bi-polar sh1t I believe. That definition is a post-modern laboratories induced illness.
All types known: Tryciclics, SSRis, SSNRis and MAOis works basically the same way and with the same results. Antidepressants creates an irreal perspective on life through perception. The individual is submitted into a fairytale world that preserves him to accept pain as a method to surpass traumas and tolerate the downs on life. Its a typical drug for this time and age, individualistic, Schizoid kind of drug.
A drug that promotes "happiness" in a world full of sh1t. Its a drug for submission into a system that necessarily ask you to be on your knees and ready to eat **** without any form of complaint and discomfort. Produce or die!
Swampcamel
Don Juan
I used to try to justify it. I'd say, "Everyone's f**ked up. I'm f**ked up, and anyone who tells you they don't have some sort of triggers or emotional sh*t is lying. The challenge is learning to accept each other." But, then, you can't save anyone, you can't fix anyone, and the difference between all the f**ked up guys on this forum looking for help and the BPD chicks they've dated is that guys will actually admit that they have issues and seek support and advice and help and try to change the direction of their lives while BPD chicks feel totally justified in their maniac abusive behavior and will never seek to adjust themselves. They might admit to you that they were raped or molested or have abandonment issues, but they feel safe in their victimization and don't truly seek to overcome it. If you love them enough, you'll put up with their sh*t and let them try to mold your life and being, seems to be the philosophy. If you won't, it's cause you're a cold, calculating a**hole who deserves all the worst of their rage.
What is BPD? It is just a label. I think all clinical psychological labels are BS, but we need language to describe personality types so that we can more easily identify what could turn into a totally toxic life. Don't worry about, "WELL ALL BUT THIS SYMPTOM IS MISSING SO SHE ISNT BPD F**K YOUR CAUTION WE WILL MAKE IT WORK" and just identify whether or not this girl seems too unstable for a mature, lasting relationship.
The truth is, though, BPD chicks f**k like rockstars and are more empathic (at times) than most regular chicks, so it's real easy to get sucked in. Just don't think it's gonna be easy getting out once you're in.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.