"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thoughts on a flaky chick...

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So I made plans to take this little honey to sushi today about 3 days ago. I texted her this AM about where and when and have heard squat back. That was 5 hours ago. I've got other women i can ask out tonight and one pining away to come over...

Help me be a DJ on this. Do I:

1) Send her a text here in a bit saying "Haven't heard from you. Can take someone else instead."

2) Send nothing and plan my backup night.

3) Other?

Thoughts are appreciated. She's a stone cold hottie, but YOUNG. A little context... she's a hostess at a restaurant and shoved her number into my hand a while back. I've been on vacation but wrote her while away.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Send nothing and call her in the next day or so. Get a definite time and place. Then get off the phone.
 
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Johnny Alias

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Yeah... that's what I was thinking. Gonna make plans with another in about an hour or so and if she contacts me at that point I'm gonna say "Made other plans. Hadn't heard from you."

Cheers
 
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