"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thoughts on a flaky chick...

Johnny Alias

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So I made plans to take this little honey to sushi today about 3 days ago. I texted her this AM about where and when and have heard squat back. That was 5 hours ago. I've got other women i can ask out tonight and one pining away to come over...

Help me be a DJ on this. Do I:

1) Send her a text here in a bit saying "Haven't heard from you. Can take someone else instead."

2) Send nothing and plan my backup night.

3) Other?

Thoughts are appreciated. She's a stone cold hottie, but YOUNG. A little context... she's a hostess at a restaurant and shoved her number into my hand a while back. I've been on vacation but wrote her while away.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GS750

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Send nothing and call her in the next day or so. Get a definite time and place. Then get off the phone.
 

Johnny Alias

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Yeah... that's what I was thinking. Gonna make plans with another in about an hour or so and if she contacts me at that point I'm gonna say "Made other plans. Hadn't heard from you."

Cheers
 
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