"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thoughtful Valentines Gift Ideas

metsfanof89

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My view on giving my girlfriend a gift is how thoughtful the gift is, more then how much it costs. Every gift I give her I try to make it as thoughtful as I can. Even the cards.

For our anniversary, I made a montage for her of all pictures of us, which was very easy to make btw.

I make every card I give her also. Birthday, Christmas, Anniversary, etc.

Another anniversary present was a small heart glass container. I gave it to her, and told her to hold onto it for later that day. I didn't tell her why I gave it to her though. And after that we drove out to this beach that we first hung out at on our first date and filled it up with sand from there, and threw in a few sea shells.

So, for this valentines day, I am coming to you for some thoughtful ideas that you ahve done. My present for her so far is this picture frame that we saw in a store that she loved. I told her I was going to get it for my mom's b-day, but i'm going to give it to her. Then I'll get her a box of chocolate and make her a card.

What else could I ge her that is thoughtful? It doesn't have to cost anything. It could be something that you gave your girlfriend, something you said to her, something you gave her that was yours, etc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Call_Me_Daddy

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So what is she giving you for valentine's day?

Something "oh-so" thoughtful.


And since when did valentine's day become like Christmas?
 

nonchalant

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vibrator and weed
 

gherald

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that's so AFC man...

what would you do if thetwo of you broke up...

you would have too many baggages...stop it...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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