"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thoughtful Valentines Gift Ideas

metsfanof89

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My view on giving my girlfriend a gift is how thoughtful the gift is, more then how much it costs. Every gift I give her I try to make it as thoughtful as I can. Even the cards.

For our anniversary, I made a montage for her of all pictures of us, which was very easy to make btw.

I make every card I give her also. Birthday, Christmas, Anniversary, etc.

Another anniversary present was a small heart glass container. I gave it to her, and told her to hold onto it for later that day. I didn't tell her why I gave it to her though. And after that we drove out to this beach that we first hung out at on our first date and filled it up with sand from there, and threw in a few sea shells.

So, for this valentines day, I am coming to you for some thoughtful ideas that you ahve done. My present for her so far is this picture frame that we saw in a store that she loved. I told her I was going to get it for my mom's b-day, but i'm going to give it to her. Then I'll get her a box of chocolate and make her a card.

What else could I ge her that is thoughtful? It doesn't have to cost anything. It could be something that you gave your girlfriend, something you said to her, something you gave her that was yours, etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Call_Me_Daddy

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So what is she giving you for valentine's day?

Something "oh-so" thoughtful.


And since when did valentine's day become like Christmas?
 

nonchalant

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vibrator and weed
 

gherald

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that's so AFC man...

what would you do if thetwo of you broke up...

you would have too many baggages...stop it...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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