"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thou shall Mind ?

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I knew that i shouldn't mind. Why should we mind on individuals family background. Well that's the questions which reminding myself after the break ups.
To be honest guys, do you think gal from a divorce family background affects her mentality,spiritually,parental love which may also leads to incompatibility with partner in the long run.

Friend of mine advise me earlier to avoid this problematic gal.


Appreciate your views.

Cheers
Chris
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what are you doing? holding out for miss right? fawk that. are you Mr Perfect? not right of you to pass judgement like that. a lot of us guys on this board come from fawked up families. give her a chance. besides, assume all chicks are nuts in one way or another, regardless. your job as a dj is to tweak her emotion buttons and make her whacko shyt work for you.
 
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Does a divorce in her family effect her? Sure it does, just like a broken bone or a car accident might effect someone life. These are traumatic events but we all get over them.

Your friend tells you to stay away from problematic women? Then, if he takes his own advice, he's either gay or a virgin, cause non-problematic women DO NOT exist.

-Al
 
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It's not the fact that her parents are divorced that you have to look out for....

Look out for other problems - such as, low self esteem (lack of fatherly love), look out for her replacing her father figure with you (daddy syndrome), drug/alcohol abuse, etc. etc. etc.....

I've dated women from a divorced home - and found no problems - except for one - who liked the green stuff a little to much.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You don't even know if she is problematic yet..

Date her and see?

If she does crazy things, blow it off.

If she doesn't - its all good.

What causes her to do crazy things is kinda irrelevant.

I know a lot of lovely girls, who are very nice and NOT messed up despite having very hard family life.
 
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I think you are asking if this girl is a psycho.

To hard to tell at this point based on the info you have given. Looks for important clues... previous threads all over the place on what typical attention HO/psychos are like.
 
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