"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thou shall Mind ?

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I knew that i shouldn't mind. Why should we mind on individuals family background. Well that's the questions which reminding myself after the break ups.
To be honest guys, do you think gal from a divorce family background affects her mentality,spiritually,parental love which may also leads to incompatibility with partner in the long run.

Friend of mine advise me earlier to avoid this problematic gal.


Appreciate your views.

Cheers
Chris
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what are you doing? holding out for miss right? fawk that. are you Mr Perfect? not right of you to pass judgement like that. a lot of us guys on this board come from fawked up families. give her a chance. besides, assume all chicks are nuts in one way or another, regardless. your job as a dj is to tweak her emotion buttons and make her whacko shyt work for you.
 
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Does a divorce in her family effect her? Sure it does, just like a broken bone or a car accident might effect someone life. These are traumatic events but we all get over them.

Your friend tells you to stay away from problematic women? Then, if he takes his own advice, he's either gay or a virgin, cause non-problematic women DO NOT exist.

-Al
 
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It's not the fact that her parents are divorced that you have to look out for....

Look out for other problems - such as, low self esteem (lack of fatherly love), look out for her replacing her father figure with you (daddy syndrome), drug/alcohol abuse, etc. etc. etc.....

I've dated women from a divorced home - and found no problems - except for one - who liked the green stuff a little to much.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You don't even know if she is problematic yet..

Date her and see?

If she does crazy things, blow it off.

If she doesn't - its all good.

What causes her to do crazy things is kinda irrelevant.

I know a lot of lovely girls, who are very nice and NOT messed up despite having very hard family life.
 
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I think you are asking if this girl is a psycho.

To hard to tell at this point based on the info you have given. Looks for important clues... previous threads all over the place on what typical attention HO/psychos are like.
 
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