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those who initiate but are vague

derby1

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i have a few women who initiate i dont text for too long and i arrange meeting up if it suits as i have before

however after my first polite collective reply there next replies are one sided no question back

shall i just start leaving the convo after there first one word response ? so they start to see im sick of there selfish BS? is this the best way of handling this ?
 

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Ask her out, a yes is a go. Go rock your night. A no or a maybe? Replie with Okay and wait a week and do it again. Another no or maybe or a my cat died or im tired tonight with no counter offer is delete number.

Not science dude!!!! it's so easy
 

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i've already met and fked these women sorry if i didn't explain right, what i mean is when they only give one word replies even though they initiated...
one is currently in a totally different area of country for a while so she initiates but then gives me total one sided BS for the next 3 texts WTF

so is the best way of dealing with this to just be polite but then leave the convo on there last vague message they sent? to train them i aint go time for one side bs?
 

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one is currently in a totally different area of country for a while so she initiates but then gives me total one sided BS for the next 3 texts
Attention seeking behavior from her. When this behavior starts, get busy doing other things other than texting her. A one sided conversation is Not a conversation.
 
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