"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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those who initiate but are vague

derby1

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i have a few women who initiate i dont text for too long and i arrange meeting up if it suits as i have before

however after my first polite collective reply there next replies are one sided no question back

shall i just start leaving the convo after there first one word response ? so they start to see im sick of there selfish BS? is this the best way of handling this ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheGambino

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Ask her out, a yes is a go. Go rock your night. A no or a maybe? Replie with Okay and wait a week and do it again. Another no or maybe or a my cat died or im tired tonight with no counter offer is delete number.

Not science dude!!!! it's so easy
 

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i've already met and fked these women sorry if i didn't explain right, what i mean is when they only give one word replies even though they initiated...
one is currently in a totally different area of country for a while so she initiates but then gives me total one sided BS for the next 3 texts WTF

so is the best way of dealing with this to just be polite but then leave the convo on there last vague message they sent? to train them i aint go time for one side bs?
 

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one is currently in a totally different area of country for a while so she initiates but then gives me total one sided BS for the next 3 texts
Attention seeking behavior from her. When this behavior starts, get busy doing other things other than texting her. A one sided conversation is Not a conversation.
 
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