“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Those of you who wear glasses - do any of you look *better* with them, than without?

The_Reaper

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I used to normally wear contacts, but I think I look better with glasses. I bought a pretty cool pair a few weeks ago (not in the slightest bit nerdy) which just suit my features very well, I've gotten a lot of compliments about them. I'm pretty sure I look worse with just the contact lenses.

So, do any of you have thoughts on this? Do girls instantly think "beta provider" when they see a guy with glasses?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The_Reaper said:
So, do any of you have thoughts on this? Do girls instantly think "beta provider" when they see a guy with glasses?
the real question is...
"are you going to stop wearing these new glasses, even if they think your a beta provider from your glasses?"

Show them with your actions just exactly who you are.
 

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The_Reaper said:
So, do any of you have thoughts on this? Do girls instantly think "beta provider" when they see a guy with glasses?
Beta provider?
Since when is beta provider associated with glasses? Just because Clark Kent wore glasses and Superman didn't, it doesn't mean that there's a label associated with glasses.

I wear glasses, and I usually get the:

- Sophisticated and intelligent with glasses
.vs.
- Mean looking and intimidating without glasses

Either way, it doesn't matter, I'm the same person with or without glasses and that's what women get to know. There is no Clark Kent and Superman for me, I'm Superman all the way, all the time.

If you keep a mindset of "With glasses I'm a dork", then that's what you shall be and what other people will think of you. Personally, I like having my glasses on more than I like having them off. For some reason, people seem to take me a little more seriously when I have them on.

Now if only I could remember to stop taking off my glasses and leaving them on top of the bed... I'd be golden.
 

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Kailex said:
Beta provider?
Since when is beta provider associated with glasses? Just because Clark Kent wore glasses and Superman didn't, it doesn't mean that there's a label associated with glasses.

I wear glasses, and I usually get the:

- Sophisticated and intelligent with glasses
.vs.
- Mean looking and intimidating without glasses

Either way, it doesn't matter, I'm the same person with or without glasses and that's what women get to know. There is no Clark Kent and Superman for me, I'm Superman all the way, all the time.

If you keep a mindset of "With glasses I'm a dork", then that's what you shall be and what other people will think of you. Personally, I like having my glasses on more than I like having them off. For some reason, people seem to take me a little more seriously when I have them on.

Now if only I could remember to stop taking off my glasses and leaving them on top of the bed... I'd be golden.
QFT!

For real though, if you think you look like a geek who finished from Georgia Tech, women will perceive the same sh*t!

Color contacts can be great. I put on some hazel ones (ran me 20 bucks BTW) and I got a lot of comments on them, even had a couple girls want to hook up! I looked like a totally different person. I walked around like I was a male model with the prettiest eyes. It worked cuz I had contacts on.
 

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I recently starting wearing glasses and contacts for the first time, and I've gotten some pretty good compliments from females. I only wear them when I'm too lazy to deal with my contacts.

BTW, Dont be surprised if a girl nexts you when she finds out you're wearing color contacts. I saw a dating show on TV a long time ago, where three girls all liked this guy cuz he had pretty eyes. When he told them they were non prescription contacts they got turned off. They found it very unmanly to color your eyes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kailex said:
I wear glasses, and I usually get the:

- Sophisticated and intelligent with glasses
.vs.
- Mean looking and intimidating without glasses

as a black man, I agree ;)
 

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I had laser operation on both eyes, and I think things went better for me. However, that was not the reason I had laser eye surgery. My vision was so poor it wasn't funny.
 

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I saw a dating show on TV a long time ago, where three girls all liked this guy cuz he had pretty eyes. When he told them they were non prescription contacts they got turned off. They found it very unmanly to color your eyes.
It does sound pretty feminine.
 

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I wear glasses and I love them; got many compliments and attention because of them. Girls like to come up to me in clubs and bars and either tell me I have cool glasses or even come up to me, take them off and try them on. My vision isn’t too bad and I can see ok without them, but since I got my new ones I wear them all the time.

Funny thing is that my Ex got me the glasses and I get a lot of female attention due to them...got to love the irony.

These are the ones I wear:
http://www.awesomeeyeglasses.com/me.../salt-optics-eyeglasses-adler-black-ice_2.jpg
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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