Tell me about it. How did it go down? Was it obvious beforehand that she liked you? Where was the amount of physical contact at before you guys exited the friends dynamic? How about eye contact, were there ever moments where she might just hold the gaze with you in conversation?
The one time I hooked up with a "friend" it was as if I friendzoned her. She made verbal moves on me while I was still with my ex girlfriend and I told her I was taken but that she seemed like a cool girl. The next time I saw her, I came to her to vent about just breaking up with my girl and I was totally distraught. She tried to make a move, but I told her maybe some other time because I honestly felt like ****. I hung out with her again multiple times even after this, however no moves were made on either behalf. The conversations were always about all sorts of **** ranging from love to philosophy to physics. There was no physical contact ever.
Things were getting pretty platonic, she'd tell me about a dude she was dating. The next time I hung out with her, it was at a party, I was wasted, and I wanted to get laid that night, so I cashed my check. It was just instantaneous walk-up and makeout without even saying anything. From there, it was gravy and we went right into her bedroom.
Current 'friend' I wanna bang: As a friend, much like the last girl, I see eye to eye with her on pretty much everything. The conversations are awesome, we have a stupendous amount in common. That's great, but for seduction purposes, who cares. When I first met her, I intended to get amorous with her and it was basically a cold approach right out of the first class. I didn't even smalltalk about the class, it was just "Who are you? Those are some rocking sunglasses..." I gamed her pretty hard, there was probably a flirty vibe, but then I found out she had a boyfriend later on, so I laid off. However, I still talked to her, teased her, and hung out with her a couple times.
She broke up with that guy last weekend, and now I'm really trying to work it. I can get this girl to laugh at almost any joke I make, but that's meaningless. She's what I'd call a very anxious/nervous and somewhat awkward girl. There is no physical touching on her part, but that's possibly because I rarely do anything either. I try to do the extended eye contact and I can get her doing it when she's really comfortable. One time, while she was still with her bf, I got her to engage in extended eye contact across the room from me in the middle of class. I'd escalate on her while studying, but I haven't been able to get her alone, besides a library is a shit place for that. I asked her to grab a cup of coffee with me after class tomorrow last time we studied together. She agreed to it, but wasn't like super excited in the way you'd think she'd be after getting asked on a date. This will be the first time we hang out for no reason.
I figure I'll begin the kino as soon as we start walking over there by the old "I'm freezing, come over here" and put my arm around her shoulder. If she can do that and I can get in her face while talking to her, I'll probably ask her if she wants to kiss me in a playful way. However, this is kinda atypical behavior given what we have now, but context and her not being single hasn't let me do this before. I don't ever take the subtle, restrained approach with women, I'm usually super direct and physical. She even knows about my escapades with women and how I banged the last girl in a stairwell after talking to her for 30 minutes. However, I have this girl in two classes and don't really wanna be seen as a creep in case she rejects me.
At this point, I feel like I've been friend zoned, but there's a possibility that's just in my head. I've been on dates before (with girls I just randomly met a day or two ago, however) and the conversation and even nonverbals might be kind of shaky (talking about politics, little to no physical contact, etc), but boom, as soon as we're about to part ways I start the makeout and things get sexual. With this girl, though, I don't think I'm gonna risk getting blown out like that. If she were single when we first started talking, I would've asked her out the second time I saw her.
If she's physically attracted to me, I'm sure she knows we could have some fucking mind blowing sex given how similar we are.
The one time I hooked up with a "friend" it was as if I friendzoned her. She made verbal moves on me while I was still with my ex girlfriend and I told her I was taken but that she seemed like a cool girl. The next time I saw her, I came to her to vent about just breaking up with my girl and I was totally distraught. She tried to make a move, but I told her maybe some other time because I honestly felt like ****. I hung out with her again multiple times even after this, however no moves were made on either behalf. The conversations were always about all sorts of **** ranging from love to philosophy to physics. There was no physical contact ever.
Things were getting pretty platonic, she'd tell me about a dude she was dating. The next time I hung out with her, it was at a party, I was wasted, and I wanted to get laid that night, so I cashed my check. It was just instantaneous walk-up and makeout without even saying anything. From there, it was gravy and we went right into her bedroom.
Current 'friend' I wanna bang: As a friend, much like the last girl, I see eye to eye with her on pretty much everything. The conversations are awesome, we have a stupendous amount in common. That's great, but for seduction purposes, who cares. When I first met her, I intended to get amorous with her and it was basically a cold approach right out of the first class. I didn't even smalltalk about the class, it was just "Who are you? Those are some rocking sunglasses..." I gamed her pretty hard, there was probably a flirty vibe, but then I found out she had a boyfriend later on, so I laid off. However, I still talked to her, teased her, and hung out with her a couple times.
She broke up with that guy last weekend, and now I'm really trying to work it. I can get this girl to laugh at almost any joke I make, but that's meaningless. She's what I'd call a very anxious/nervous and somewhat awkward girl. There is no physical touching on her part, but that's possibly because I rarely do anything either. I try to do the extended eye contact and I can get her doing it when she's really comfortable. One time, while she was still with her bf, I got her to engage in extended eye contact across the room from me in the middle of class. I'd escalate on her while studying, but I haven't been able to get her alone, besides a library is a shit place for that. I asked her to grab a cup of coffee with me after class tomorrow last time we studied together. She agreed to it, but wasn't like super excited in the way you'd think she'd be after getting asked on a date. This will be the first time we hang out for no reason.
I figure I'll begin the kino as soon as we start walking over there by the old "I'm freezing, come over here" and put my arm around her shoulder. If she can do that and I can get in her face while talking to her, I'll probably ask her if she wants to kiss me in a playful way. However, this is kinda atypical behavior given what we have now, but context and her not being single hasn't let me do this before. I don't ever take the subtle, restrained approach with women, I'm usually super direct and physical. She even knows about my escapades with women and how I banged the last girl in a stairwell after talking to her for 30 minutes. However, I have this girl in two classes and don't really wanna be seen as a creep in case she rejects me.
At this point, I feel like I've been friend zoned, but there's a possibility that's just in my head. I've been on dates before (with girls I just randomly met a day or two ago, however) and the conversation and even nonverbals might be kind of shaky (talking about politics, little to no physical contact, etc), but boom, as soon as we're about to part ways I start the makeout and things get sexual. With this girl, though, I don't think I'm gonna risk getting blown out like that. If she were single when we first started talking, I would've asked her out the second time I saw her.
If she's physically attracted to me, I'm sure she knows we could have some fucking mind blowing sex given how similar we are.
