Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You might want to remove that link, not allowed here. Hence why I said pm :p

I'm fine with questions, it's just no one's posted the album up in newsgroups.

:), thanks! :D
 

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Thank ya! I'm not a fan of torrents, for the horrendously slow speeds, but I guess Newsgroups can't post everything.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Never had to. I can suck down (almost) whatever I want at my full bandwidth capacity. It's just I was blown away that no one had a Thornley album up within the past....120 days..I seriously cried, how could that be possible.

Thank you though, I had a BT client still lying around even after I uninstalled it a year ago. Seems to me I better keep it there. :)
 

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Newsgroups, it's the pre-P2P deal. IMHO, it's better, but it can't serve everything up, and since it's revolving content, you'll get the cycles of new stuff, and the reposts of the old albums. You might find some of the lesser known stuff, or some bands that are right old and good, and sometimes, it just didn't get served up.

It's a network much more then music though. Newsgroups, as the name implies, is what it is. However, it serves me happily, and 99.9% of the time, the servers serve solidly, full speed (ISPs hate me).

The downside, $$$. I'd recommend it.
 
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