"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This Year I am Gonna...

drmeathead

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Ok this is a quirky New Years Resolution post but I was thinking that those that want to post their resolutions on here can keep each other accountable if they come across a post in which they see their brother slipping. Ill start...

Effective immiedately, I will trust the wisdom of my gut, not the rationalizations of my brain or the urges of my ****.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21

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this year I am:

going to make more money
going to get into prime physical shape
have sex..lots of it by the end of the year
spend precious time with my son
get a better job
or better education
re-read the dj bible
 

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I have attempted to do something similar on another message board, but barely anyone maintained accountability for their resolutions. In fact, most did not meet them. For that reason, I mostly dislike the concept of a resolution since 99% of people refuse to follow them....whats the point?

I believe I can achieve the goals set forth below.

My List

1- Read a few books. They have already been shipped, I would like to finish them in 2008.

2- Career Change. I want a significant pay raise.

3- Talk to more women in public - not bars/ parties. Admittingly, I am still pretty reserved in public, as I don't do much deviating from the work/ social routine throughout the year. This will be a challenging, interesting development, and I have already started - who needs a stupid day to wait to start something worthwhile?

4- get laid more.
 

drmeathead

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i agree...i just thought that if people put up their goals and that if for example you see i am simply rationalizng some situation iwth some girl too much ud be like dude stick to your plan. maybe i am to idealistic
 
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