"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this woman has no heart

CopperHead

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I want to have kids in a few years. If I knew my girl was going to have a baby with a major birth defect I would be all for an abortion. Its not worth the suffering of myself, my woman, the child, and the drain on society.

If I had enough money to throw at the problem to go away or at least to be handled, then fine I would reconsider. I don't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jack12345

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I get your point.
Probably would act differently. I'm with Vladimir Horowitz on that one - perfection is imperfection
If I had to made the choice to whether have kids or not I would keep them whatever they are. The thing is that having kids in foremost is not an easy decision for me. As a man I have this freedom. As a women you probably would be in a different position

I do still believe that she will regret her words, she is not the problem as long as she use her anonymity. The problem are the bunch of nazis and other idiots who are fed by such information
 
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After all the sh!t my family has been through over the past five years, I couldn't tolerate something like this happening too. Talk about a p!ss take. Hell no.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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