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Bullshine would be my answer
Bullshine would be my answer
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This woman has never had a ONS?? what say you all?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
GotED?
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I personally would think it is very possible.
I never had ONS or wanted to hump/dump any woman on a first date - even though I don't look like her LOL.... but I have had dated women/had girlfriends/wives who were in the HB8-9 categories.
It seriously depends on the individual's own morals and values, and level of self-discipline and control.
Some people are not sexually focused - others can not handle going too long without the release.
Different strokes (don't interpret THAT the wrong way!) for different folks.
With respect,
Exodus
I never had ONS or wanted to hump/dump any woman on a first date - even though I don't look like her LOL.... but I have had dated women/had girlfriends/wives who were in the HB8-9 categories.
It seriously depends on the individual's own morals and values, and level of self-discipline and control.
Some people are not sexually focused - others can not handle going too long without the release.
Different strokes (don't interpret THAT the wrong way!) for different folks.
With respect,
Exodus
Mike32ct
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It's possible, but uncommon.
ONS' aren't for everybody.
ONS' aren't for everybody.
VladPatton
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Yeah why not, not every woman digs that kinda thing. Nowadays, I don't know how anyone can meet and trust a stranger and have them come to your house/go to theirs, ʂhit's pretty nuts if you think about the risks.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Gotta call BS... Not because of how she looks, but what she says. It's all standard, anti-slut, social-appropriate nonsense. I used to know HUGE *****s who said the same **** - only to lose interest once people "got to know them", and went out looking for ONS' - while denying and lying their asses off. They also used the "not looking for a man", "enjoying the single life", "going out with the girls" gibberish - only to ***** around like no other.
One time a girl tried to set up a **** buddy situation - without saying it like that (they NEVER do) - only to look at me in shock when I suggested she was a *****. She wasn't "looking" for anybody, and all the typical BS. She was also "finding herself" and being "fine alone" - like this here specimen you linked. She also "just got out of a relationship" (3 ****ing years ago, at the time), and all the typical BS *****xcuses. I asked what she would do if I didn't comply - insofar as finding her "needs" elsewhere. But she "wasn't like that". HAHA. Then she ended up whoring around (of course) - like she was all along. Even "broke up" with me over lack of sex (despite never actually being together, or her wanting anybody - while making her appear as not a ***** / looking for a relationship / things not working out), and found the next **** to jump on. And she did... right away.
Despite stringing me along with only ever sex on her mind - she pranced around telling everyone we were "just friends" - to keep her *****options open, and appear innocent in public.
They do this **** all the time. Anything to save face, appear wholesome, and not be perceived as "bad". And I mean ANYTHING. They're never going to say anything other than what she said - not in front of one person, and certainly not in front of millions.
Even if she's not looking for a ONS, or relationship - doesn't mean there's not FBs, FWBs, or pseudo-relationships in there. And they're usually the same thing - with the same intentions in mind. Or she'll get with a ONS', non-relationship material guy - then act shocked and play the victim when all he wants is sex - despite choosing him specifically for that purpose.
Don't believe ****.
One time a girl tried to set up a **** buddy situation - without saying it like that (they NEVER do) - only to look at me in shock when I suggested she was a *****. She wasn't "looking" for anybody, and all the typical BS. She was also "finding herself" and being "fine alone" - like this here specimen you linked. She also "just got out of a relationship" (3 ****ing years ago, at the time), and all the typical BS *****xcuses. I asked what she would do if I didn't comply - insofar as finding her "needs" elsewhere. But she "wasn't like that". HAHA. Then she ended up whoring around (of course) - like she was all along. Even "broke up" with me over lack of sex (despite never actually being together, or her wanting anybody - while making her appear as not a ***** / looking for a relationship / things not working out), and found the next **** to jump on. And she did... right away.
Despite stringing me along with only ever sex on her mind - she pranced around telling everyone we were "just friends" - to keep her *****options open, and appear innocent in public.
They do this **** all the time. Anything to save face, appear wholesome, and not be perceived as "bad". And I mean ANYTHING. They're never going to say anything other than what she said - not in front of one person, and certainly not in front of millions.
Even if she's not looking for a ONS, or relationship - doesn't mean there's not FBs, FWBs, or pseudo-relationships in there. And they're usually the same thing - with the same intentions in mind. Or she'll get with a ONS', non-relationship material guy - then act shocked and play the victim when all he wants is sex - despite choosing him specifically for that purpose.
Don't believe ****.
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This is bullsh*t in lamen's terms.
This is Anti slvt defense in game terms.
This is Anti slvt defense in game terms.