Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If you look closely, I did not post that. Somebody under the namemutambo said:Hahaha Stukka are you here to pick up men?
This is the second gayish post you made, last one beeing you willingly go to gay bars haha oh man.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And if these same guys saw this "7" at a club, they'd be saying, "oh my god that girls a 10!". And they'd sh!t their pants when it comes time to approach her, believing maybe accurately they wouldn't have a chance. It's like they're KJing over pics and HBratingsPhyzzle said:
.Yes, always funny when we get the virgins, afc's, and the guys who claim to be very picky saying how they have standards and the attractive girls on pics posted here are not good enough for them.ketostix said:And if these same guys saw this "7" at a club, they'd be saying, "oh my god that girls a 10!". And they'd sh!t their pants when it comes time to approach her, believing maybe accurately they wouldn't have a chance. It's like they're KJing over pics and HBratings
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
most gypsy in world come from romania! we here have proud slavic blood. romanian country filled with men of blackness who fornicate in town square for all world to see!!!! look at video. it is proof that such act occur! filmed in heart of romania. romanian girl want the blackness! when not the blackness she want gypsy!Taviii said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Poland has the most beautiful women.aldaris said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.