"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I will start goign heavy on the kino, Ive never considered kino as a big tool I just thought of it as "its ok Ill do it no biggie" but I never though it was important, now Im noticing the effects it had on this girl I initially kinoed and now stopped, initially she was kinoing me back, now shes shown less interest I will reiniciate kino and see how this changes Im out to field test kino (probably for more than a week) I will give some results on friday
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I know what you mean! Since i've been going out to clubs and dancing with girls i've started kinoing much much more with regular girls i meet around school. I am 100% confident about touching them...anywhere :)

And not one has told me to get my hands off her, just goes to show and for so long i was scared to touch girls. If you treat it as a natural act then they see nothing wrong with it, in my experience its when YOU MAKE IT IMPORTANT that they start to get creeped out.
 
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Yea, for the past couple of weeks I've really been stepping up the kino, and its amazing how little resistance there is. I can get away with things I never thought I could do, and no one has told me to stop.

I've also found that it makes me more open to touching in general, and I feel more comforable in social settings, even with my friends.

For some reason though, I still have a mental barrier to kinoing certian girls. The girls I'm very physical with arent less attractive, but I'm still an AFC about these other girls. I dont really understand why. Mabye its because I put to much value on them.
 
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GaryUranga said:
I will start goign heavy on the kino, Ive never considered kino as a big tool I just thought of it as "its ok Ill do it no biggie" but I never though it was important, now Im noticing the effects it had on this girl I initially kinoed and now stopped, initially she was kinoing me back, now shes shown less interest I will reiniciate kino and see how this changes Im out to field test kino (probably for more than a week) I will give some results on friday
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Gotcha soldier.

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