"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GaryUranga

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I will start goign heavy on the kino, Ive never considered kino as a big tool I just thought of it as "its ok Ill do it no biggie" but I never though it was important, now Im noticing the effects it had on this girl I initially kinoed and now stopped, initially she was kinoing me back, now shes shown less interest I will reiniciate kino and see how this changes Im out to field test kino (probably for more than a week) I will give some results on friday
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Clarky

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I know what you mean! Since i've been going out to clubs and dancing with girls i've started kinoing much much more with regular girls i meet around school. I am 100% confident about touching them...anywhere :)

And not one has told me to get my hands off her, just goes to show and for so long i was scared to touch girls. If you treat it as a natural act then they see nothing wrong with it, in my experience its when YOU MAKE IT IMPORTANT that they start to get creeped out.
 

Yookiwooki

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Yea, for the past couple of weeks I've really been stepping up the kino, and its amazing how little resistance there is. I can get away with things I never thought I could do, and no one has told me to stop.

I've also found that it makes me more open to touching in general, and I feel more comforable in social settings, even with my friends.

For some reason though, I still have a mental barrier to kinoing certian girls. The girls I'm very physical with arent less attractive, but I'm still an AFC about these other girls. I dont really understand why. Mabye its because I put to much value on them.
 

DJ_Matthew

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GaryUranga said:
I will start goign heavy on the kino, Ive never considered kino as a big tool I just thought of it as "its ok Ill do it no biggie" but I never though it was important, now Im noticing the effects it had on this girl I initially kinoed and now stopped, initially she was kinoing me back, now shes shown less interest I will reiniciate kino and see how this changes Im out to field test kino (probably for more than a week) I will give some results on friday
Gotcha soldier.

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