"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This was weird!

Ultra

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I am working a summer job before I go back to school, and my dj skills have finally settled in... so it was a great place to test them out. The results so far have been great. I am confident, and I really use C+F well.

So, the girls that work there always give me attention and flirt with me constantly. It's amazing how many times they grab my arm or laugh and touch my shoulder. Being a rAFC is quite a shock, and I'm not used to this kind of response. It's literally amazing.

Well this one girl, HB8 i've had my eyes on since day one. We didn't talk right away but in the past few weeks i've talked and flirted with her during breaks and after work walking to our cars together. I use C+F really well with her. The other day she asked ME to hang out afterwork. We went bowling and had a great time, i used kino and we had good eye contact the whole date, it went well.

The next day after work she asked to hang out again but I was busy and told her i'd see if I could hang out this weekend. I ddidn't call her friday or saturday but planned to sunday. She ended up calling me before I could. I picked her up and we went up to a family cabin in the woods. We were on the couch looking at the clouds and then we had eye contact and I kissed her. Afterwords she looked confused and distraught. Finally she told me that she is pregnant and has a boyfriend, but that all she can think about is me, and now that i kissed her she is even more confused. She said the past week i've been the onl thing on her mind.

i said , "look i am here for a couple more weeks and i am taking it day by day with you, i don't know what your going through, but what more do you want me to say?"

what a CRAZY thing to drop on me. I was thinking she wanted to have a little in and out before i got back to school =). So really, wtf is she thinking??? She was all lovy dovy after that and then we left and she hugged me for like 15 seconds before she got out of the car. What is going on with her? Does she want me to **** her before I go back to school or WHAT?!?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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homey72

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I agree, stay away. Pretty simple here, nothing to think about. She's pregnant, think about what that says about her, especially since she is ready to jettison daddy so quick.

Run don't walk away from this one.

-Homey
 

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This is a very hard situation for you.

It is obvious that you should walk away .. . . nono, run away as Homey said.

However, I understand that it is NOT obvious when one is actually in your situation. Please take our advice on this one and find girls worthy of your company that are physically, emotionally, and mentally attractive.

Good luck.
 

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Ditto to what these guys have said. Your post reminds me a lot of myself when my game first started coming together with women. The biggest mistake I was making at that time was that I wasn't selective enough about the women I was bringing into my life because I didn't realize yet how much power and choice I had with them. I guarantee you if you'll walk away from this one you'll find one very quickly that will make you glad that you got away from her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DiSt0rTi0n_07

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These guys know what they are talkin about, listen closely to them grasshopper :D
 
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Run mate, run...I have JUST told a girl that has screwed me around for over a year to fvck off out of my life. She was a liar, a cheat and an attention wh0re. I remember her telling me similar things to what you're hearing, except she wasn't pregnant. I can imagine her doing a similar thing in your story to someone else when she's older.

This girl KNEW something might happen between the two of you, the kiss confirmed it. She put herself in the situation, but will now of course act like it "just happend". She's pregnant and has a BF. Her actions make her seem like a drama queen to me and I would stay the fvck away. Go look for a single chick that isn't going to want a new daddy for her baby in 9 months.
 

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Give her a cVm facial, she deserves one!
 
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