"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This was so sad

DropZone3

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Last night, I was out rock climbing with a meet up group, and one guy arrived with two babes so I thought that was great for him. A few hours later the two babes put a rope around the guys neck for pictures. I really felt sad for this guy to let himself be treated like a dog. I can't think of any dj accepting this s1ht
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Loosen up, man. Sounds like a group of people having fun. Not everything has to be about trying to be John Wayne.
 

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Perhaps you are right Iceberg, but I can't imagine James Bond ever letting a woman treating him like a submissive dog.
 

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Never see girls "having fun" like that with the cool guy of the group,they usually keep those "jokes" for the "funny guy"...you know the nice guy who get the jokes instead of the pvssy.
 

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DropZone3 said:
Perhaps you are right Iceberg, but I can't imagine James Bond ever letting a woman treating him like a submissive dog.
I couldn't imagine James Bond joining a Don Juan Discussion Forum and complaining about other guys either. Yet here we are.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I couldn't imagine James Bond joining a Don Juan Discussion Forum and complaining about other guys either. Yet here we are.
I agree 100% with you about the internet. Had James Bond been there, he would have put the rope on the babes neck and taken them home.:D
 

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Dear Kitty,

Today I went rock climbing with a meet up group of people. I had great fun, climbed some rocks, smiled a lot too. Except when I bumped my knee into a rock because it hurt a little. It took the smile off my face for a bit, but after forgetting the pain, it came right back!

There was this dude there too, and he had 2 girls with him. I bet he's banging them both, and that made me so jealous! Especially when I saw them laugh together all the time and they were taking fun pictures with rope around his neck. That made me quite angry, because I would've loved to be on a rope with those two girls and them laughing with me. So I pity the guy as a natural protection scheme and think he's a sad sad loser without game.

I am going to bed now, weep a little because that guy is probably f*cking those girls right now.

Love,
DropZone3
 
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