"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This was so sad

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Last night, I was out rock climbing with a meet up group, and one guy arrived with two babes so I thought that was great for him. A few hours later the two babes put a rope around the guys neck for pictures. I really felt sad for this guy to let himself be treated like a dog. I can't think of any dj accepting this s1ht
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Loosen up, man. Sounds like a group of people having fun. Not everything has to be about trying to be John Wayne.
 

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Perhaps you are right Iceberg, but I can't imagine James Bond ever letting a woman treating him like a submissive dog.
 

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Never see girls "having fun" like that with the cool guy of the group,they usually keep those "jokes" for the "funny guy"...you know the nice guy who get the jokes instead of the pvssy.
 

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DropZone3 said:
Perhaps you are right Iceberg, but I can't imagine James Bond ever letting a woman treating him like a submissive dog.
I couldn't imagine James Bond joining a Don Juan Discussion Forum and complaining about other guys either. Yet here we are.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I couldn't imagine James Bond joining a Don Juan Discussion Forum and complaining about other guys either. Yet here we are.
I agree 100% with you about the internet. Had James Bond been there, he would have put the rope on the babes neck and taken them home.:D
 

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Dear Kitty,

Today I went rock climbing with a meet up group of people. I had great fun, climbed some rocks, smiled a lot too. Except when I bumped my knee into a rock because it hurt a little. It took the smile off my face for a bit, but after forgetting the pain, it came right back!

There was this dude there too, and he had 2 girls with him. I bet he's banging them both, and that made me so jealous! Especially when I saw them laugh together all the time and they were taking fun pictures with rope around his neck. That made me quite angry, because I would've loved to be on a rope with those two girls and them laughing with me. So I pity the guy as a natural protection scheme and think he's a sad sad loser without game.

I am going to bed now, weep a little because that guy is probably f*cking those girls right now.

Love,
DropZone3
 
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