“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This was a sad phone call...

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I know why she denied me, but I need to know how I can better improve my skills...I'm not afraid to take some heat to get on point. Guess my question is, is this enough to know to just walk away for good- LOL?

I called this girl, joke around about her sleeping habits (sleeps alot)...Asked her what she was up to. She said cleaning up and doesn't think she's going to mow the grass (It's Friday, so I'm not about to ask her out for today)...I say mow the grass! They make you do that!? She said somebody has got to do it-- What about your dadz :rolleyes:

Silence.

I don't have a dad.

:eek:

Ok, so I'm done, but I figure might as well...

Well, it's super hot out today anyway--
<Chit Chat...>
Let's go out for coffee on Sunday.

Well, I got family coming in and I don't know how long they'll be here for. But if this is your number, I'll call you.

Yeah, that's it.

I'll talk to ya...putter putter click.

BLOODY! To me this was flat out that's it...others might say, well take her for her word. So back to the question above.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Well, it was definitely a little awkward, but if she had high interest I think she would have been able to get past it. Your bigger problem was asking her out in the middle of Memorial Day weekend. Though it's a Sunday, it is the equivalent of a Saturday since Monday is a holiday. It is assumed if you are "popular" or "in demand" that you would have plans over the Memorial Day weekend.
 
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Doh'! Yeah sometimes you can't help but screw up like that. You didn't know she didn't have a dad. Anyway, just look for other cues as to whether she's receptive - voice tone, raport, etc. Just from your post here it sounds like a possible next but I would say don't be too eager to next just yet. I'd say make some plans for a fun action date and then give it a shot next week.
 
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Memorial Day Weekend...HA! I forgot...I'm a retard- LOL.
 
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Actually, called her back to take the pressure off calling me. Told her I that I actually forgot about the holiday and I have this all day BBQ to go to (which I really do)---- She played cool about it, and I think it was a wise move. I left off that maybe we'll hang out this week and I'll call her.
 
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