MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Second time today, actually. Here's the first:PairPlusRoyalFlush said:How many times have you made this anal retentive know-nothing comment in the last few weeks? give it a rest.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=2072051&postcount=5Zarky said:Because all men are the same and want the same exact things as every other man, all the time!
( . )( . ) said:What's that like the 5th time you've said the same thing? You's are not unique snowflakes either sweetheart.
Zarky, you don't use game successfully (or in your case pretend to use game) and come out of it thinking "Gee they're all so different". One or the other woman, one or the other. Your a dandy playa who "get's it" or your bamboozled by it all at how complex and unique they all are. Get your stories sorted out.
I gotta say that's gotta be one the funniest FAILS I've ever seen.MatureDJ said:
Wise words.samspade said:If you had to bet your life on something, you'll bet on the generalization, not the exception.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.