"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This video fixes most issues on here:

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mauser96 said:
Lol, going to watch it now! Thanks for posting.

Realistically, a dose of Corey Wayne, Sandman, and Tom Leykis is usually what we need to get our heads back on straight. I listened to Tom all day while staining my deck today.

New chick is starting to pull the lil mind games and tests already. Texted her last night wishing her luck in a personal matter she was dealing with today. She has not responded, DESPITE the fact I could see she read it at 10:00pm.

That's ok. I will NEVER contact her again until I hear from her first - and then I will wait at LEAST a day to respond, just like she did. Maybe 2 days.

I don't normally play the texting "make 'em wait game", but it seems appropriate now.

Tom is good medicine for neediness.
Devil's advocate, what else is she gonna say but "thanks." It really wasn't necessary to respond to that.

What Tom Leykis videos do you recommend
 

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@ mauser

I agree it's uncourteous. Thing is most girls these days, especially the young ones, don't have common courtesy so you might as well find someone who is courteous.

Even my younger sisters (one being 24 and the other being 18) will not reply to some of my texts in a courteous way when I ask something and their excuse is they saw the text late and figured there was no reason to reply.

They don't even know what they are doing is wrong...they are so distracted by other bullcrap on their phone.
 
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