"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This type of vehicle you drive increases attraction

Jack Hensy

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I am all for driving a newer model car. A brand new BMW, a dodge charger, a corvette. But, like most guys who can't really afford these types of brand new vehicles. Especially if you are in your 20's and have a new job with an entry level salary or maybe you are still waiting tables to make ends meet.
Most of us can get by driving older vehicles to see us through lean times. Nothing wrong with it either. Some of the lucky few can afford the brand new vehicles.

I own a 2011 black BMW 325i. It's kind of girly, trendy, gives off that wealthy vibe, sexy, peppy, zips in and out of tight spaces.
I get compliments and its stylish. I like the car and its fun to drive.

My 2000 Crown Vic is rugged and masculine. Its de-copped and civilized. It runs great, sounds like a beast when I rev the engine, has a powerful engine, very comfortable, large sedan and can barrel down the highway at 90mph at a smooth speed.

Conclusion:
When I take dates out in my 2011 BMW they giggle since it really doesn't suit me as a man. Think of a masculine, large guy driving a small stylish car. The two don't go well together. Plus, I rarely get laid in it. I get compliments from the car, but girls just don't respond positively to me driving it.

When I take dates out in my 2000 Crown Victoria I get laid a lot. I get snickers and teases, but I their clothes come off at the end of the night. End of story.

The point is --- a rugged truck, sedan or a vehicle that is masculine increases attraction ten-fold.
It can be beat up or used. Just make sure its clean.
Buying a brand new girly car will do the opposite for your wallet and girls.
Lesson learned. Women want masculinity and what you drive says a lot of about you.
Don't look at what women say...watch on how they respond to you.

Vehicles to buy to increase attraction - keep these vehicles for dating
Any Truck
Any Jeep
Any Large Sedan - cadillac, crown vic, lincoln towncar
Any Sports car - corvette, dodge charger, camaro, etc

Vehicles to buy to decrease attraction - keep these cars for running errands, jobs
Asian cars - Honda, Toyota, Lexus, Kia
Small cars - coupes, volkswagons, mazda3, bmw 325i




 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's often not whatever material possession that does the attraction, it's how you feel about it. I'm sure you could make the BMW the sexiest car you own, if you feel sexy in it. But you don't so you'll behave slightly differently in it than you do in the other car.

It does more for you than it does for women.
 

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I disagree. The vehicle you drive has a "moderate effect" on attraction. I am not saying that a vehicle is going to be of paramount success with women.
Far from it. Game, self-esteem and your appearance matter a lot more.

I am saying the odds increase in your favor that women respond sexually to you----if you drive the right type of vehicle.
If you want to prove me wrong - go drive a volkswagon bug with a pink flower in it and let me know.......
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I mean its not so much the car as it is the personality. Your possesions usually reflect who you are. Which is why its weird if you see a big bearded lumberjack dude driving a prius.

Where I live, you'd do better in the BMW. Here its all about name and clout. Doesn't matter if its a small car or not. Once they see the BMW logo you're golden. Even if its an old model.
 

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Pulled a girl home in my 98 forester last night, just replaced the head gaskets a couple days ago and it's still burning off oil loloool she dug it
 
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I mean its not so much the car as it is the personality. Your possesions usually reflect who you are. Which is why its weird if you see a big bearded lumberjack dude driving a prius.

Where I live, you'd do better in the BMW. Here its all about name and clout. Doesn't matter if its a small car or not. Once they see the BMW logo you're golden. Even if its an old model.
Good suggestion. Not that girls in bars and clubs see you're car, but I'm buying a 2007 Z4 today for $6,000 as opposed to the $70,000 Aston Martin I was previously going to save for.

Will this make a difference? Who knows.

It beats the '97 Ford Ranger with no a/c that I currently drive.
 

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I am all for driving a newer model car. A brand new BMW, a dodge charger, a corvette. But, like most guys who can't really afford these types of brand new vehicles. Especially if you are in your 20's and have a new job with an entry level salary or maybe you are still waiting tables to make ends meet.
Most of us can get by driving older vehicles to see us through lean times. Nothing wrong with it either. Some of the lucky few can afford the brand new vehicles.

I own a 2011 black BMW 325i. It's kind of girly, trendy, gives off that wealthy vibe, sexy, peppy, zips in and out of tight spaces.
I get compliments and its stylish. I like the car and its fun to drive.

My 2000 Crown Vic is rugged and masculine. Its de-copped and civilized. It runs great, sounds like a beast when I rev the engine, has a powerful engine, very comfortable, large sedan and can barrel down the highway at 90mph at a smooth speed.

Conclusion:
When I take dates out in my 2011 BMW they giggle since it really doesn't suit me as a man. Think of a masculine, large guy driving a small stylish car. The two don't go well together. Plus, I rarely get laid in it. I get compliments from the car, but girls just don't respond positively to me driving it.

When I take dates out in my 2000 Crown Victoria I get laid a lot. I get snickers and teases, but I their clothes come off at the end of the night. End of story.

The point is --- a rugged truck, sedan or a vehicle that is masculine increases attraction ten-fold.
It can be beat up or used. Just make sure its clean.
Buying a brand new girly car will do the opposite for your wallet and girls.
Lesson learned. Women want masculinity and what you drive says a lot of about you.
Don't look at what women say...watch on how they respond to you.

Vehicles to buy to increase attraction - keep these vehicles for dating
Any Truck
Any Jeep
Any Large Sedan - cadillac, crown vic, lincoln towncar
Any Sports car - corvette, dodge charger, camaro, etc

Vehicles to buy to decrease attraction - keep these cars for running errands, jobs
Asian cars - Honda, Toyota, Lexus, Kia
Small cars - coupes, volkswagons, mazda3, bmw 325i
Here's a pic of my Camaro (which I posted on here before in my Camaro Thread in the Anything Else section). 24 inch CHROME rims. Nearly every time I'm out, someone gives me a compliment lol.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not gonna live a materialistic life to attract materialistic women. If i have the money, I'll change to the vehicle of my preference, but it won't be because of gaining women's validation.
 

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Coupes don't decrease attraction. Asian cars it depends. I think a lot of those cars are neutral and don't really increase or decrease attraction.

I would say Minivans and hybrid environmentally friendly gay cars are the only cars that might decrease attraction. Along with cars in very bad condition that make you look like a broke loser.
 

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I drive a mustang and get compliments every day. All of them from dudes lol.
 

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Ladies seem to like my car. (Mine is white)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have a high end sports car that attracts a ton of attention. You can't drive it anywhere with out somebody yelling "nice car" or something to that effect. I've had many women walking down the street holding hands with a guy yell " I love your car, I want a ride". I've observed many women walk up to it and take selfies.

A while back I was on a congested street in the bar district and traffic was barely moving. Within 2 blocks I had 4 women walk up to the car and stick their heads inside and start hitting on me. Most were 15years younger than me and all HB7-8.

The kind of attention I get with this car is disgusting. I can't take these women serious.
 
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I have a high end sports car that attracts a ton of attention. You can't drive it anywhere with out somebody yelling "nice car" or something to that effect. I've had many women walking down the street holding hands with a guy yell " I love your car, I want a ride". I've observed many women walk up to it and take selfies.

A while back I was on a congested street in the bar district and traffic was barely moving. Within 2 blocks I had 4 women walk up to the car and stick their heads inside and start hitting on me. Most were 15years younger than me and all HB7-8.

The kind of attention I get with this car is disgusting. I can't take these women serious.
What kind of car is it exactly?
 

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This is my new coupe. My ex would talk **** about my previous coupe, because she thought that me driving this type of car meant that I was single...... lol
 

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Gets da ladies. :cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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